06/20/2026
“Mike” never thought he would be a single father to teenage girl, but he never thought he would be homeless either! After serving his country in the navy, Mike started a career, married his sweetheart, bought a house, and had a bouncing baby girl. For several years, he seemed to be living the American dream. Then the trouble started. Just a few small stumbles – a disagreement at work, a couple of missed mortgage payments, more and more fighting with the wife, some DUI’s – led to a lost job, a home in foreclosure, a repossessed car, and a broken marriage. It seemed like everything went wrong at once! Suddenly, Mike was homeless, helpless, and hopeless, with no idea what to do or where to go.
And then, Mike heard about the Men’s Warming Shelter. He was hesitant at first to come to a homeless shelter, but after meeting the encouraging staff and friendly volunteers, getting a few good nights' sleep and enjoying some hearty meals, Mike realized this was the place he could get back on track. Mike took advantage of all the help he could get – he started therapy and attended AA, got his driver’s license back and his legal troubles under control, worked with local and state VA offices, and began looking for employment. Within his first 10 days at the shelter, Mike found a full-time job. Then he took a second part-time job. Every paycheck went into the bank, until after just two months Mike was able to buy a car. With steady income, transportation, and a great support system, Mike was ready to start the search for housing.
Through all the hardships and homelessness, Mike remained an involved and loving father. He talked to his daughter almost daily, visited her frequently, and even at his lowest, managed to scrape together support money. When looking at rentals, his one requirement was an extra room for his daughter to spend weekends. Luck was with him, and Mike found a nice 2 bedroom house in a quiet neighborhood and moved in - and not a moment too soon.
While Mike's life was on the upswing, his ex-wife's had taken a drastic turn for the worse, and she was no longer able to care for their daughter. She and Mike agreed he should assume full custody, and 14 year old "Annabelle" moved in.
Life as a full-time father is a joy for Mike! He cooks dinner, checks homework, and shops for just the right hair products. He and Annabelle enjoy doing home projects, like painting her room the perfect shade of black, and eating pizza while watching TikTok videos together. This weekend, they took a roadtrip to North Carolina to see her favorite Youtuber in person - now that's a great dad! Mike is grateful for every minute with his daughter, and for the second chance the Men’s Warming Shelter gave him.
This Father’s Day, will you help us help fathers a fresh start and a second chance? Give online today at www.bedfordmenswarmingshelter.org or mail your donation to PO Box 430, Bedford IN 47421. The Men’s Warming Shelter - Giving Fathers a Fresh Start!