06/04/2026
One comment I keep seeing on my grocery store video is: “It’s not your job to police what other people do. Just focus on your own dog.”
The thing is… I am focused on my own dog. I was focused on my own dog when I called the store manager. That’s exactly why this is a problem.
I don’t go grocery shopping looking for rule breakers. I don’t care what breed your dog is. I don’t care if your dog is wearing a vest. Honestly, if your dog is quietly minding its own business and I never notice it, I probably won’t think twice about it.
However, that’s not the reality I’ve experienced, especially living in Florida.
The reality is that I’ve had service dogs attacked. Unfortunately, especially during tourist season, the reality is seeing dogs jumping on produce displays, watching dogs block entire aisles while owners stand there chatting, hearing barking, lunging, growling, and watching dogs drag their owners through stores.
Yet, somehow when service dog handlers speak up about it, we’re told we’re “policing” people.
No. We’re trying to safely access public spaces that we’re supposed to be protected in, places that are NOT pet friendly. I rely on a medical alert service dog. Grocery shopping isn’t a hobby for me, it’s not a social outing, it’s a basic life activity. The grocery store itself is actually one of the most challenging places I go because the design of grocery stores is actually built to stress your nervous system out so you buy more and get out fast.
I should be able to buy food without worrying whether the next dog around the corner is going to rush my service dog. I should be able to focus on my health, my shopping list, and getting home; not constantly scanning the store for potential problems.
What’s especially frustrating is that people often treat this like it’s a disagreement between dog lovers and dog haters…… It’s not. Most service dog handlers love dogs. Many of us have dedicated years of our lives to training, caring for, and advocating for dogs.
This conversation isn’t about dogs, it’s about behavior, accountability, and understanding that rules exist for a reason. If every dog entering a grocery store was calm, under control, non-disruptive, and posed no risk to the public or working service dogs, most of these conversations wouldn’t even be happening. However, when businesses take the approach of “we’ll only deal with it if someone complains,” the burden gets shifted onto the people most affected by the problem.
That’s where I think a lot of people miss the point. I’m not asking to police everyone. I’m asking to be able to buy groceries with my service dog without having to worry about whether today is the day another person’s choices put my safety, or my dog’s safety, at risk. That’s not an unreasonable expectation, it’s accessibility.