07/16/2026
Dear Diary…
If I’m being honest…
I almost didn’t start this page.
Not because I didn’t have something to say.
I just kept thinking I needed to heal a little more first.
Like…
Maybe if I waited until I had all the answers, I’d know exactly what to say.
But healing don’t work like that.
Neither does life.
Truth is…
I’m still learning.
Still unlearning.
Still healing.
Still becoming.
And I got a feeling I’m not the only one.
So instead of waiting until I had it all figured out…
I decided to let y’all grow with me.
This page ain’t about pretending to have the perfect life.
It ain’t about acting like I got every answer.
It’s about having the conversations a lot of us keep bottled up.
The ones about childhood.
Trauma.
Relationships.
Boundaries.
Forgiveness.
Self-worth.
Learning how to let go.
Learning how to choose ourselves.
Learning that healing ain’t always pretty…
But it’s worth it.
So if you’ve ever felt like you had to be the strong one…
The fixer.
The peacemaker.
The one everybody leaned on.
Baby…
Pull up a chair.
Grab your journal.
And let’s talk about it.
Welcome to Tough Talk Therapy: Becoming Her.
We’re just getting started.
🤍Unlearning. Healing. Becoming.