10/14/2026
💜💜💜 HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Patrice Meekins ! 💜💜💜
🌸 SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO GIVE PEOPLE THEIR FLOWERS WHILE THEY CAN STILL SMELL THEM! 🌸
Today, I want to celebrate a woman who has been part of my Hug Don't Shoot journey for nine years.
PATRICE MEEKINS! 💐💜
I met Patrice Meekins years ago at Empowerment Temple. At the time, neither one of us could have imagined the journey ahead of us or how Hug Don't Shoot would eventually connect our lives.
When I started Hug Don't Shoot, Patrice signed up to volunteer.
And I'm going to tell y'all something...
I DIDN'T EVEN THINK SHE WAS GOING TO SHOW UP! 🤣🤣🤣
But baby, SHE SHOWED UP!
And not only did she show up, SHE KEPT SHOWING UP! 💜
Over the years, I've had the privilege of watching this woman transform right before my eyes.
I remember a shy Patrice. A woman who probably didn't even realize the strength, confidence, and greatness she had inside of her.
But look at her NOW!
The woman I once wondered would even show up to volunteer eventually took HUG DON'T SHOOT ALL THE WAY TO WINSTON-SALEM, NORTH CAROLINA! 🙌🏽💜
Let that sink in!
Something that started right here in Baltimore, Maryland, found another home because this woman believed in the mission.
And I'll never forget when Hug Don't Shoot had its poster displayed at BWI Airport.
PATRICE FLEW FROM NORTH CAROLINA TO BALTIMORE JUST TO SEE THAT POSTER! 😭💜
Now THAT'S love!
That's dedication!
That's somebody who understands that what we're doing is bigger than any one person.
But what makes me most proud isn't just what Patrice has done for Hug Don't Shoot.
IT'S WHO I'VE WATCHED HER BECOME!
I've watched her find her voice.
I've watched her grow in confidence.
I've watched her become a stronger woman.
And I've watched her recognize that she has something valuable to offer this world.
AND LET ME NOT FORGET... 🤣🤣🤣
I've also watched you raise your son from a handsome little kid named NOAH to a handsome, respectable young man named DORIAN! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
But seriously, Patrice, watching you grow as a woman AND a mother has been just as beautiful as watching everything you've accomplished with Hug Don't Shoot.
Sometimes we meet people and have absolutely no idea how important they'll become in our lives.
Patrice, you are one of those people.
And I hope you know that while you were helping me build Hug Don't Shoot, I was watching YOU build something just as important.
YOURSELF! 💜
Today, I don't want to wait until there's a special ceremony, an award, or some grand occasion to acknowledge you.
Your BIRTHDAY is reason enough!
Thank you for believing in something I was still figuring out myself.
Thank you for showing up when I wasn't even sure you would. 😂
Thank you for carrying the mission beyond Baltimore.
And most importantly, thank you for being YOU!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, PATRICE MEEKINS! 🎂🎉💐
I'm proud of the woman you've become, and I hope you never stop growing, learning, loving, and discovering just how powerful you really are.
You deserve an ENTIRE FLORIST, not just a bouquet! 💐💐💐
And if there's one thing these nine years have taught me, it's that our Hug Don't Shoot motto is more than just words:
"THE HUG YOU GIVE JUST MIGHT BE THE HUG YOU NEED." 💜
Love you, Patrice!
Val Jenkins
Founder, Hug Don't Shoot 💜
P.S. AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HER TWIN SISTER, Cherise Meekins , TOO! 🎂💐💜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOVE Y'ALL BOTH! 💜