08/30/2019
Longish update: I have been injured & unable to participate in physical activities as before. I also retired from a very active job & without the reason to set aside fatigue & other MS fallout issues, just how much I was pushing through became very front & center. I'm one of the "but you don't look sick" & struggled to get a mental grip on disease management & communicate it to others.
In a happy coincidence I began wooden spoon carving & while visiting family in Texas found out about this "spoon theory" through San Antonio Spoon Carvers' Evan Hebenstreit. Even after 15 years of living with this I had never heard of it.
Light bulb moment for me! If you don't know about this take a few moments to read the link below & maybe, like me it will help you communicate how this disease affects you.
Also a group called Spoons for Spoonies was started here on Facebook. Even if you're not a spoon carver, if you wish to participate by donating artisan wood spoons with messages of encouragement for others, their page lays it out. You can find spoons available by makers to purchase on Etsy, ebay or just google spoon carvers for outlets & it also supports the makers' worldwide community.
I myself am making 5 to contribute & more if I can.
Thanks for reading!❤
The spoon theory or spoon metaphor is a disability metaphor (for a combination of ego depletion, fatigue, and other factors), a neologism used to explain the reduced amount of mental and physical energy available for activities of living and productive tasks that may result from disability or chroni...