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Stop Abuse For Everyone - SAFE SAFE provides unique services for domestic violence victims and helps
individuals for whom few services are available. www.stopabuseforeveryone.org

OUR MISSION IS IN OUR NAME, "STOP ABUSE FOR EVERYONE"
Stop Abuse for Everyone (SAFE) is an informational and educational non-profit organization that encourages service providers to better understand and provide services to underserved victim populations

Coerced debt, says Teal Inzunza, associate vice president of justice initiatives at the Urban Resource Institute in New ...
05/26/2025

Coerced debt, says Teal Inzunza, associate vice president of justice initiatives at the Urban Resource Institute in New York, is one of the most pernicious kinds of financial abuse.
This happens in any gender combination.

Five years ago, Sarah Ortiz began the process of leaving her abusive husband.
Since then, she has been trying to prove to the judges in her divorce proceedings that she was left in the dark by her husband and unknowingly saddled with debilitating debt.

“Right now, he’s in debt around $100,000,” Ortiz told Katie Hercheroeder, and he wants her to pay half of it—on top of the $45,926 (and 99 cents) of debt in her name. “Most of [it],” she continued, “I didn’t know existed.” It’s a hard battle. “It’s his word versus mine,” she said, “and my name is on the document.”

Sarah’s experience has been repeated by scores of women across the country who are victims of coerced debt, or “nonconsensual credit-related transactions,”—and it's ridiculously hard to crack down on.

As Hercheroeder reports, “According to surveys of survivors of intimate partner violence, up to 99 percent of victims of domestic violence experience some kind of financial injury related to the abusive relationship; this ranges from lost wages from missed work to costs associated with housing instability and the more extreme cases, like Ortiz’s, of mass debts accrued by a controlling partner.”

The coercion happens in private. Lines of credit are opened on a computer in a shared home. The debt balloons, but the payments aren’t made.

Then the victim gets a call from debt collectors, telling them they are responsible for thousands of dollars in unpaid charges, often plus high interest.

Coerced debt, as Teal Inzunza, associate vice president of justice initiatives at the Urban Resource Institute in New York, told Herchenroeder, is one of the most pernicious kinds of financial abuse.

Over several interviews, Ortiz detailed being haunted by debt previously unbeknownst to her, brought on throughout a marriage she has been trying to leave—claims confirmed by her lawyer and a family member, in addition to court documents, police records, emails, and messages sent through the co-parenting application OurFamilyWizard that were reviewed by Mother Jones.

You can read Ortiz’s story at the link below: https://tinyurl.com/3zuhbmvy
📸: Sophie Park

Silent victims of sexual violence, Ukraine’s male POWs deserve real support
11/24/2024

Silent victims of sexual violence, Ukraine’s male POWs deserve real support

*CONTENT ADVISORY*

"Forced nudity during 'welcome beatings,' naked 'crouch walking,' and gratuitous stripping and body cavity searches are but a few examples of the abuse Viktor Lakhno, 26, a former prisoner of war (POW), endured in Russian custody."

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https://www.yahoo.com/news/opinion-silent-victims-sexual-violence-173644309.html

10/24/2024

08/24/2024

"I[t is] not easy for any victim of sexual assault to speak up about their traumatic experiences.

This is especially true for male survivors, who are often sidelined in conversations revolving around sexual assault and r**e.

That is why filmmaker Joshua Inberaj decided to make his upcoming documentary Nothing Gentle in the Shadows, which tackles the stigma and silence surrounding sexual violence against men."



https://www.thestar.com.my/news/focus/2024/08/02/male-r**e-silenced-and-sidelined

This is a superb conference with an inclusive emphasis on victimization of males.
08/22/2024

This is a superb conference with an inclusive emphasis on victimization of males.

Get your tickets on Eventbrite!

07/27/2024

"When Baby Reindeer was released in April this year, few could have predicted the scale of its impact. But while many recent headlines have focused on the controversies around the true identity of the series’ semi-fictionalised antagonist, Martha, this clickbait-induced furore risks obscuring the important theme that is central to the story: sexual violence against men."



https://www.menshealth.com/uk/mental-strength/a61626390/male-survivors-sexual-abuse/

For decades, a major international conference on partner abuse (held annually in San Diego) refused to accept any papers...
04/06/2024

For decades, a major international conference on partner abuse (held annually in San Diego) refused to accept any papers which did not focus on cisgender female victims of abuse by cisgender males. That was the dogma of Second Wave Feminism.

The upcoming International Conference on Violence against Men and Boys is scheduled to take place at Hyatt Regency in Miami, Florida, from June 11-13, 2024. This groundbreaking event aims to address the pressing issue of violence against males by bringing together decision-makers, public health professionals, researchers, and advocates from around the United States and the world.

Violence against boys and men is a critical public health concern, with consequences including overdose, su***de, mental health challenges, homicide, and more. The conference aims to facilitate interdisciplinary discussions and knowledge exchange to identify evidence-based interventions and policies to prevent and reduce violence targeting boys and men across various contexts, fostering collaboration for safer communities. Our conference isn't just about raising awareness; it's about generating actionable strategies and solutions to combat violence against males at its root causes.

For those that prefer to watch virtually or are unable to come in person, we have a virtual option to the conference. Please see the website for all those details.

Conference Details:
Event Title: 2024 International Conference on Violence against Men and Boys
Date: June 11 – 13, 2024
Venue: Hyatt Regency, Downtown Miami, Florida
Expected Hybrid Attendance: 1300 (300 in person + 1000 online participants)
Conference Website: http://conferencevamb.com

Conference Highlights:
• Keynote addresses by renowned experts in the field of public health, violence prevention, and gender studies.

• Presentations of cutting-edge research findings, case studies, and best practices from around the globe.

• Panel discussions and interactive workshops on topics related to violence prevention, policy development, intervention strategies, and survivor support.

• Networking opportunities to foster collaborations among professionals, academics, NGOs, and governmental bodies.

• Exhibition area for organizations to showcase their initiatives, products, and services.

🔗 Register and learn more at http://conferencevamb.com

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