08/10/2026
🌻11 Days of Aubrie | Day 10
In honor of Aubrie’s 17th Birthday, I’ll be sharing photos, memory, or story each day for the days leading up to her birthday.
For Day 10, I wanted to share all of her birthday pictures… birthdays 1–14. 🎂 Every year had a theme, a color, a new place, and its own little memories.
Aubrie once told me her top three birthdays were 5 (Frozen Extravaganza), 9 (Mermaid Pool Party), and one she never got to have but had dreamed about for years… her Sweet 15.
The first few years, I picked the themes based on whatever she was into at the time (Minnie Mouse, Team Umizoomi). But once she turned 3, she started telling me exactly what she wanted. 😂 And I was that mom who would do all the little detail things to make her day special.
But being an August baby meant her birthday celebrations always needed two things: AC or a pool. 😂 Aubrie and I share the same birth month, so whenever people talk about how hot August is, we just bat our eyes like,🤣 We’re used to it.
I truly loved planning her birthdays. Even if it meant there were years I didn’t really do much for my own birthday, because making hers special mattered more to me.
She also hated that because her birthday fell during summer, her school would always celebrate her birthday during the last week of school in May. I remember telling her, “Let’s turn that into a good thing. You get celebrated more than once a year!”❤️
As she got older, I had hoped that instead of big birthday parties, we’d eventually trade them in for trips and adventures together.
Aubrie was my birthday gift. 🎁 She was born just 9 days before my birthday and I will forever believe she was one of the greatest gifts I could have ever received.
And the cake… the cake was ALWAYS important. 😂 She hated chocolate cake. As a little girl, she would literally just eat the icing off the top. So of course, I made sure her cakes were exactly what she wanted.
For her heavenly 15th birthday, I made her a special cake too. 🎂🤍
Looking back, I feel like Michael and I raised a pretty modest kid. She didn’t need extravagant things or expensive gifts to be happy. She cared about the experience, the people, the little things, and making memories. And maybe that’s why these pictures mean so much to me.
They aren’t just birthday pictures. They are pieces of a life that I was so blessed to live alongside her. Sweat and tears I’m so glad that we made them all possible 🥹
Thank you to everyone who has been listening, reading, sharing, commenting, and helping me tell Aubrie’s story. I know these posts are a lot. They are heart-wrenching for me to write, but they are also incredibly beautiful because they allow me to introduce Aubrie to people who never got the chance to meet her.
Thank you for loving her through me. 🤍
14 birthdays. So many themes. So many memories. One incredible girl.