03/09/2026
Another International Women’s Day post bc it only comes once a year and I have so many amazing women in my life!
Listening to the soundtrack that I added to my last post, I couldn’t help but think about the amazing women of 3T / Q+M Cycling 🫶🏻 It’s like the song was literally written about them.
As of last week, I am rather unexpectedly no longer a member of the team, and when I made this very difficult decision, I cried big ugly tears for a few days - not because of silly bike racing, but because these women have become some of my very best friends in the world. We’ve shared successes and struggles on the bike, but even more so off the bike as we’ve navigated COVID, Hurricane Helen, relationship beginnings and endings, weddings and engagements, losing and gaining furry family members, struggling our way through the dumpster fire that was 2025 (& now apparently 2026… 😵💫), ups and downs in the bike industry, and so much more. Through all of this we’ve laughed at silly memes together, screamed AAAAHHHHHHH at the top of our lungs together, shed tears together, and ALWAYS, no matter what lifted each other up together.
My ADHD, now Perimenopausal never-shut-up brain (and sometimes mouth 😅) can be A LOT, but these ladies never once made me second guess myself, feel like “too much” or “not enough”, and shockingly I very rarely if ever internalized comments (or lack there of) from this amazing group of women.
My biggest fear when deciding to leave the team was that our friendship dynamics would change or even worse, fade away and eventually be lost. I mean, as they begin to plan team races and events for 2026, of course some of the dynamics will change bc I won’t be included in those plans or conversations BUT they have ALL (every single one of them!) gone out of there way to show me (not just tell me) that I am still an integral part of our friend group & not that easy to get rid if 😂.
Thank you ladies for being there for me through the last week as I’ve dumped more emotional baggage on you than you deserved, and somehow managing to keep the vibes immaculate ✨ Strong Women lift Stong women up when they fall, and I love you all so much for it 🥰