12/03/2025
💙 Love this story of Kathy and Phil Shaw in Virginia who are supporting their loved one on the inside 🙏🏽💪🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💥
For seven long years, Phil and Kathy Shaw had been on the list for adoption, waiting for the call that there was a baby available for placement with them. At last, it came. Go to Roanoke, the Virginia couple was told; there’s a 6 month old boy there for you to see. “They said, ‘Of course, you don’t have to take him if you don’t want,’” says Phil. But as soon as they arrived and a staff person brought the baby to meet them, there was no question about them taking him. “He looks to Kathy,” Phil says, “and he reaches towards her, like, ‘That’s my mama.’ Oh, we knew. We knew.”
They named their new son Bronson (a movie starring Charles Bronson was on TV when the parents-to-be were discussing names, and they knew “right then and there that was his name”) and the connection the Shaws immediately felt to the boy has remained steady ever since, even through the challenges they’ve faced as a family. “We had our problems,” says Phil. “He’s been a difficult child to raise, Lord knows – Kathy took the brunt of it – but we love him. He’s still got problems, but, you know… he’s my son. He’s our son. And we want to help him in any way we can.”
With Bronson currently incarcerated in a Virginia state correctional facility, the help his parents want to provide is by way of education. “Kathy has an associate’s degree, I have a bachelor’s degree, and we realize education is power,” says Phil. “Simple as that. You get an education – and it doesn’t have to be book education, it doesn’t have to be to get an actual college degree – any knowledge only helps you and, if you’re working, only helps your employer. So that’s what we want for our son. We want him to be successful.”
It was Bronson who discovered Level and told his dad, “Check this out. This is something.” Once Phil did check it out, he realized that the program offered a rare opportunity for his son to further his education while he was incarcerated. “The state of Virginia is very, very backward when it comes to educating their felons over 21,” he says. “If you’re under 21, they have a high school for you, so you can graduate from high school. If you’re under 21, they do rehabilitation. If you’re over that age, it’s incarceration. And they do nothing – I repeat, nothing – to make sure that when you leave those gates you won’t be back. I like the fact that Level is helping people that sometimes have no help on the outside. By helping them, you’re only going to make them a better citizen when they get out.”
Bronson getting out is a thing Phil and Kathy think about a great deal. And they have worries. “When you get out of prison, you’ve done your time according to the law, okay?” says Phil. “However, most public opinion is, they hold it against you. As a matter of fact, here in Chesterfield County, my son will not be able to rent an apartment. Why? Because he’s a convicted felon. Does that make sense to you? It doesn’t make sense to me. And then, it was only up until recently that if you owed fines to the state of Virginia, they suspended your driving license. Now, if you’re lucky enough to get a job, and you’re lucky enough to have some place to stay, it better be on a bus line or you have somebody to take you to and from the job. Failing that, you’ve got to drive. Well, what happens? You’re breaking the law again. What happens? They’re going to send you back in.”