09/17/2026
✨ Community Spotlight: Shani Thornton, Child Life Mommy ✨
We're honored to highlight a Certified Child Life Specialist who has spent 20 years helping children through the hardest moments of their lives. A little over 13 years ago, she left the hospital setting to start her own private practice after recognizing a significant need for child life support out in the community. Today, she works with children and families in their homes and virtually, supporting them through illness, medical and dental trauma, grief, and loss — and for the past 8 years, working closely with children and families impacted by cancer.
💛 HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN CANCER TO A YOUNG CHILD?
With honesty, and with hands-on tools kids understand. She uses body books, building blocks to represent healthy cells, and Play-Doh to represent cancer cells. She explains that our bodies are made of billions of cells, each with an important job — and that sometimes a cell becomes broken and doesn't work the way it's supposed to. That broken cell can get in the way of healthy cells doing their jobs, and cancer cells make more cancer cells. Then they talk about the ways doctors can treat cancer: surgery, radiation, chemotherapy, immunotherapy, or a combination.
Just as important, she makes sure children know: cancer is NOT contagious, and it is NEVER caused because someone made a mistake, did something bad, said something wrong, or even had a bad dream. These misconceptions matter deeply to young children — and they need to hear the truth.
💛 WHAT SHE WISHES MORE PEOPLE KNEW
Childhood cancer is not as rare as many people think — and yet only a small percentage of federal cancer research funding is dedicated to children, divided among the many different types of pediatric cancers.
She also wishes people understood what childhood cancer truly looks like. It isn't just the image of a smiling, bald child. These are real children and families whose entire lives are suddenly turned upside down — children separated from siblings, friends, school, and everything that feels familiar and safe, enduring incredibly difficult treatments whose physical and mental trauma can continue long after treatment ends.
In her words: "Most importantly, I want people to stop looking away because childhood cancer is uncomfortable or heartbreaking to hear about. Instead, lean in. Lean in with support. Lean in with advocacy. Lean in with funding and research. These children and families deserve all of us standing beside them."
💛 HER NEWEST RESOURCE
Last September, she made it her mission to create a comprehensive Childhood Cancer Resource Guide — one PDF bringing together the nonprofits, organizations, programs, and resources that support families coping with childhood cancer. It spans 17 categories, including financial assistance, survivorship, comfort and care packages, mental health and psychosocial support, research and advocacy, sibling support, camps and retreats, educational support, and more. It’s now available on her website here: https://childlifemommy.com/resources/
She spent countless hours researching, reviewing, and organizing it all so that families, child life specialists, healthcare professionals, social workers, and nonprofits have one place to turn.
Because, as she puts it: "Families are already carrying so much. Finding help shouldn't have to be another overwhelming task."
Thank you, Child Life Mommy, for two decades of standing beside children and families — and for making sure no family has to search for help alone. 💛