Love Truth International

06/09/2026

No is a complete sentence, and saying it to your in-laws, your calendar, or a well-meaning friend is not a betrayal of your wedding vows.

Many couples carry deep guilt around setting boundaries, believing that love requires unlimited availability. But constant availability eventually breeds resentment, fracturing the very foundation of your relationship.

In Proverbs 4:23, we are instructed to guard our hearts, because everything we do flows from them. Think of a boundary like a fence around a piece of land. A fence defines what you are responsible for protecting and nurturing, rather than simply keeping everyone out.

To protect your union, you must practice saying no together. You can start with a soft, collaborative redirect: 'I need to check with my spouse before I commit to that.'

As you grow stronger, focus on protecting the marriage unit from outside opinions. Phrases like 'That does not work for our family right now' or 'We are not sharing the details of our marriage with others' keep well-meaning but intrusive voices at bay.

The hardest, yet most necessary step, is setting firm limits with extended family when lines are crossed. It is entirely acceptable to say, 'The way you spoke to us is not acceptable, and it needs to change.'

Prioritizing your spouse is a vital act of stewardship for your marriage, not a selfish choice. Let us know in the comments how setting boundaries has helped strengthen your relationship.

07/30/2024

03/29/2024

Amen 🙏

03/13/2024

You will never hear another person’s voice more than your own!

03/12/2024

Happy birthday to my beautiful, fantastic wife! 🎉 I celebrate you today and always.

You are amazing, sweet, and lovely. I've cherished getting to know you, and marrying you has been a joy. There's so much about us that I could share, but today, I just want to remind you how special you are.

May the good Lord continue to keep you strong and healthy, and may you continue to reach your full potential in life.

I hope you feel truly special today, knowing that you are loved by the Lord and by your family. We couldn't imagine life without you, and we always cherish your presence. Enjoy your 35th birthday! 🎂❤️ Love you, honey. 

02/29/2024

Life changes, you lose love!

01/14/2024

Happy Sunday Group!

A love marriage may not equal 50-50 %
Show up every day to give your 100% and you will reap a double-fold due season if you fain't not………

01/13/2024

Rest is part of our design, but resist the temptation of converting your rest and breaks into a destination.

This post is written to remind us of a few things we know we may have forgotten. I encourage you to read to the end and you will be blessed.

But while breaks are necessary, don't turn them into permanent retirement. Like the parable of the rich man who felt he had got that much more than he needed in life and said that he would build a bigger barn -Luke 12:16, we should avoid idolizing comfort and wealth.

Taking breaks doesn't mean stopping entirely. Just as God rested, but continued His divine work, we too can find joy and purpose in serving others. Service is a key part of a fulfilling life.
So,

Here are three simple ways you can find rest and rejuvenate your body and your entire being.

Take short naps and sleep well, give your body rest from work. Sleep is one of the gifts God gave to mankind, we should use it to our advantage.

Finding your purpose in life is one of the greatest rest you will enjoy in life. ..And Jesus said Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest, Matthew 11:28. When you find your purpose it touches across every part of your being; it takes you away from the pressure of trying to impress people, it can be a very stressful lifestyle.

Take breaks from people, and things around you that cause you distractions such as TV, News, your phone, food, your spouse, and the list goes! learn to create a personal space at some point in your life. Sometimes, absence has a way of increasing your value

Jesus had personal space in his lifetime ministry. He knew when to withdraw from people. Even when he has to pray.
Jesus at some point a personal space from his disciples.

It's important to keep in mind that you may not be able to accept every invitation, attend every meeting, fellowship, and even church activity, but remember to not convert your breaks into a permanent rest.

Take short breaks to recharge in 2024, but resist the temptation of converting your breaks into a comfort zone. Some people never recover from their breaks.
Share your valuable experiences and knowledge with those around you.
Remember, life is a gift meant to be shared. Enjoy the journey in 2024..✍️🏾Martin Kalu

01/06/2024

Being in the right place at the right time is important to fulfilling our purpose. However, it's important not to let your position in life become an idol.

Remember, your position is temporary, but your purpose is lasting. If you focus too much on where you are, you might lose sight of your purpose.

Many people have missed their purpose or a significant opportunity on their life journey because they idolized their position.

Just like Adam and Eve were placed in the garden by God, their focus shifted from God to the garden, leading them to violate the law that kept them in the garden.

Treasure God’s direction more than the position or the destination itself, Life's fulfillment lies in purpose; So don’t trade it for a momentary position.

In 2024 may you be a good steward, who will treasure and maximize the gift of life, that God has given you, and may you be productive in all desired areas of your life. Peace..✍️🏾 Martin. Everyone