05/13/2026
Last night, my daughter and I had the honor of presenting a scholarship in memory of my stepson, Cole Gentry, who we lost to fentanyl in 2022.
Sitting on that stage, watching those students walk across to receive their awards, I couldn’t help but think about how fast time goes. The moments we have with our kids—even the ones we take for granted—don’t last forever.
As parents, we often think, “My kid would never…” But the truth is, no one plans to make a life-altering decision. Sometimes it’s just a moment—a little pressure, curiosity, or the desire to feel better—that can change everything.
That’s why we started the Cole Gentry Memorial Scholarship—to keep his name, his heart, and his love for others alive. And to remind people that there’s still more work to do.
To every parent: take the time. Sit in those uncomfortable chairs. Celebrate your kids. Talk to them. Remind them they are loved and that they matter—far beyond grades, appearances, or expectations.
And to every young person: you are enough. You don’t need a substance or a “quick fix” to be valued. Life will be hard at times—but it’s worth living.
Because one decision, made in a moment, can last a lifetime.
James Capps
