09/14/2026
I came across the song “How Loved You Are” by Josh Wilson, and it stopped me in my tracks.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJneSZ3Q1lY&list=RDvJneSZ3Q1lY&start_radio=1
It carries a message I wish every single person could truly believe about themselves.
When people hurt us, talk behind our backs, question us, say unkind things, don’t believe in us, or make us feel like we aren’t enough, it can be hard not to let those voices become our own. Sometimes, if we hear them long enough, we begin to wonder if maybe they’re right.
But they don’t get to define your worth.
Your worth is not found in someone else’s opinion of you. It isn’t determined by who accepts you, who understands you, who includes you, or who chooses to walk away.
You are beautifully and wonderfully made in the image of God.
Yesterday in Confirmation, we talked about the question, “What is a Christian?” And I keep thinking about that conversation alongside this song.
We put so many labels and expectations on what a Christian is supposed to look like. How they should dress. How they should worship. What their life should look like. What questions they should or shouldn’t ask. Sometimes we even decide who seems “Christian enough.”
But God knows the heart. We do not.
Being a Christian doesn’t mean being perfect, having every answer, never questioning, or fitting into someone else’s idea of what faith is supposed to look like.
It means belonging to Christ. Being loved by Christ. Following Christ. And continuing to grow, stumble, wonder, learn, love, forgive, serve, and trust along the way.
And maybe we need to remember that before we allow someone else’s words to define us, or before we use our words to define someone else.
You are loved.
You are enough.
You are needed.
You are wanted.
You matter.
And when people fail us, and they will, there is One who continues to walk with us. One who knows every part of our story, carries us in His heart, and loves us through every season.
Nothing someone says about you can take that love away.
So today, I simply pray this song finds the person who needs it.
May you know how loved you are.
May you remember whose you are.
And may the voices that tell you that you are anything less than a beloved child of God grow quieter than the voice of the One who created you.
And may we be careful that our voice is never the one making someone else question how loved they are.
You are loved. You matter. And you never walk alone.
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