11/12/2025
TLDR: plans for Nov 22. Iāve been asked by a few people if I and the others that usually put stuff together, are planning something, as weāve always planned something for every anniversary, as well as every holiday, birthday, etc. A lot has happened in my life personally, Iām dealing w health issus so i was going to do something extremely small. But since so many have hit me up, yall let me know who would want to join in a celebration of life for her
Happy November everyone š.
This is the month that we acknowledge on the 22nd the yearly anniversary of the day Mel was taken from us. I will not say passed, I will not say died, because she was murderedā¦ taken. And thatās worth mentioning. However on the 22nd we try to CELEBRATE her life, and not dwell on the singular event that ended her, as she is not defined by that. She was, and is, defined by the amazing, kind, talented generous, funny, extremely intelligent, person she was. She was all of that and more. Thereās not enough words in the English dictionary, or any language dictionary, to describe all the amazing things she was and is. Including the completely admirable and upmost deserving of respect way of fearlessness she possessed, that let her live the adventurous life she lived. Something most of us can only be inspired by, be in awe of, and could only dream about- as most of the people in this world do not possess the ferocity and fearlessness she had about her always. It inspired so many people to live as their true selves. To always be authentic, and to aspire to the level of confidence and grace in which she held herself always. To know her was to love her, but it was also to be amazed by her.
ļæ¼There are so many wonderful and beautifulļæ¼ things about her life, as well as who she was as a person, to remember and celebrate. So thatās what we do on Nov. 22. It will be 5 years. Personally, Iāve been dealing with a lot of health issues and Iāve been mostly bedridden, so I truly was not planning on putting anything big together and just keeping it to like five people total being mostly family. But since so many people have hit me up asking if anything is being planned, I think it would be silly not get those people togetherļæ¼ as opposed to just like everyone doing separate things, (which I totally respect and Iām here for if thatās what you wanna do), but I get the gist that a lot of people would want to do something together. Have one big thing as opposed to the first option, and Iām just basing this off of how many people have hit me up and asked about it. Mind you Iām still not looking to do something super huge but I do think we could put something medium size togetherāŗļø.
So I would like to ask you guys how many of yāall would come out to a celebration of life for Mel on November 22? ļæ¼Or possibly the day before or the day after it depends on everyoneās schedule - BUT will cross that bridge when we get to it lol. I just wanna know who would be down to come and celebrate her life. and yes, it is going to be way more organized than last yearās - and I will just say it once and now only- if anybody causes any drama like last year, they will promptly be removed. The guest list is who the guest list is gonna be- whether you like someone on the guest list or not respectfully itās not about yāall. Itās about Mel and who shed want there. So thatās what I have to say about that particularly, and anyone who wants to join in her celebration of her life, as well as agrees to not be involved in drama is absolutely welcome. Especially because me personally, like I said, have been having health issues, and I know for a fact that if I do pull this off, even with my health issuesā¦. genuinely like my body my mind my soul simply cannot take any unnecessary drama. Especially on the day where itās supposed to be about Mel And like one of the hardest days of the year for me every year.
ļæ¼ļæ¼SO ļæ¼ with that being said, ļæ¼ļæ¼Let me know and I will plan something and put something together like I be doing lol and truly, I would love to have you know, like, a celebration of life where a bunch of people are there. It would definitely help the people who are grieving to be around a lot of other people grieving as well as showing Mel that we can all come together and celebrate her as a unit as one instead of in fractured celebrations.
So those are my thoughts on it, and like I said, either like or comment or message me to let me know if you guys would be down to include yourself in her celebration of life, and weāll take it from there. I hope everyoneās having a great day ā¤ļø
