06/12/2026
🌻💛 Yesterday was one of those days that was both beautiful and heartbreaking all at the same time. 💛🌻
Yesterday, Addie should have been promoting to 6th grade alongside her classmates and friends. She should have been laughing with them, celebrating, taking pictures, and getting excited about starting middle school.
Instead, I spent the day missing her a little extra.
Today, something incredibly special happened.
One of Addie’s best friends, Shelby, along with her sister and their mom, Mandy, brought me the most beautiful gift I could have ever received. Wrapped inside were five burlap banners containing 75 hand-painted sunflowers—one from each of the 5th graders Addie would have moved on to middle school with.
These banners had been displayed during their promotion ceremony in memory of Addie. Afterward, they carefully wrapped them up and brought them to me so they could hang in the shop and continue honoring her memory.
As if that wasn’t enough, they also included Addie in the class time capsule.
I don’t think words can fully express what that means to a grieving mother.
In a world that keeps moving forward, one of the biggest fears after losing a child is that people will stop saying their name, stop remembering them, and stop including them. But these amazing kids and their families reminded me today that Addie is still loved. She is still remembered. She is still a part of her class.
This gift will forever be treasured alongside the sunflower notes these same children made for me 18 months ago. During some of the darkest and most unbearable days of my life, I would sit and read those notes over and over. Those sweet words from little hearts helped carry me through moments when I didn’t think I could take another step.
To every single 5th grader who painted a sunflower, wrote a note, remembered Addie, and carried her with them into this milestone… thank you.
To all of the parents who helped make this happen… thank you.
Thank you for remembering my girl.
Thank you for saying her name.
Thank you for making sure she was still included.
Thank you for reminding a grieving mama that love doesn’t end, even when a life is cut far too short.
Addie may not have walked across that stage with her classmates, but because of all of you, she was there. 🌻💛
And that is a gift I will cherish for the rest of my life.
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