TUFFMISSION Inc

11/21/2025

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A "trauma-focused" medical doctor promotes the idea of “letting go of your victim story,” which overlooks the neurobiological and relational realities of trauma. ☣️

When people have been profoundly hurt, the “story” isn’t just a set of beliefs to be questioned; it’s the brain and body’s record of what happened. It’s carried in implicit memory, physiology, and attachment patterns, not just in thoughts that can be reframed. It's a biological effect. 🧬

When someone is still hurting, their nervous system is trying to complete unfinished processes of protection and connection. Shame or self-blame for “staying in the story” can deepen dysregulation and isolation. The idea that “no one can hurt you unless you believe they can” dismisses the fundamental truth that human beings are biologically vulnerable to one another. We are shaped in relationship, and injury in relationship leaves real physiological marks. ‼️

From an Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) perspective, healing isn’t about transcending pain or denying impact; it’s about integrating experience: bringing implicit bodily memories into awareness safely and with attuned connection. That often requires the presence of trustworthy others who can co-regulate, not just cognitive inquiry into beliefs. 👥

There’s wisdom in noticing when we’re looping in old narratives, but true transformation arises not from disowning the story, but from being compassionately witnessed in it until the body and mind can settle into coherence again. The story then naturally changes, not because we forced it to, but because integration has occurred. And that is genuine liberation! ⛓️‍💥

11/13/2025

When someone can’t say what they need, that’s a disability.
But when someone CAN articulate their needs, everyone acts like it’s a character flaw.

Two stories. Same struggle. One gets patience, the other gets punished:

❤️A child with “severe” autism covers their ears and screams as the classroom noise rises. Immediately, staff turn the volume down and offer headphones to help.

💙But across the hall, another autistic student—verbal, politely asks if others can please talk more quietly. The response? A reprimand.
“You’re always complaining about something, aren’t you? Too hot, too cold, too loud. Are you ever just content?”

❤️A student with higher support needs walks toward their usual seat to find someone sitting there. The person notices, quickly moves, and playfully teases, “I know where you’re headed!”

💙But when the “mildly” autistic adult approaches and sheepishly points out, “that’s normally where I sit”
the other person responds, “there’s plenty more seats”, before turning back to their conversation.

We have GOT to stop using people’s vocabulary as a measuring stick for how much support they should need.

The more words someone has, the easier it is to miss their pain.
Don’t make that mistake.

Language is JUST an indication of what someone can say, not what they can handle.

11/10/2025

07/27/2025

A young girl's drawings magically become reality, and her quiet town becomes ground zero for rampaging glitter/crayon monsters. She and her brother must track down the creatures and defeat them to save her family.

SKETCH comes to theaters on August 6th, 2025. Get tickets today!

07/11/2025

THANK YOU to whoever blessed us with this surprise haul!! What a surprise, and it’s a blessing to know we have a community supporting us walking through the doors He opens for us to share HIS LIGHT !

Celebration Place Northland— opening on Fri Nights starting Aug 15!!

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! I THANK GOD FOR HIS GOODNESS IN THOSE AROUND US, AND FOR LOVING US DESPITE ANY FAILURES OR MISTAKES! IT IS HIM WHO DOES THE GOOD WORK IN US, AND I PRAISE HIM FOR THOSE MERCIES!!

07/10/2025

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07/08/2025

We are excited to help launch Celebration Place, bringing the
“Team Unbreakable Family Fun” to help whole families heal from their hurts, hangups, and habits with JESUS!

Praise God for answered prayers and the strength to say YES to His still, small voice when all the doubters in my mind wanna scream!

If you have any available:

craft supplies,
children’s musical instruments,
Fidgets,
Sanitizing Wipes/ Sanitizer,
Board Games,
Elementary Books that promote SEL,
Legos,
Or anything of the like, please either bring to me before Aug 1 or arrange for me to pick up, and we would be so forever grateful!

Thank you for allowing us to bring the Light of Jesus to help break through the darkness of anxiety and depression— for the whole family!

06/18/2025

Don’t understand the Bible enough to enjoy reading it? …

Ask the Holy Spirit to help you see His Goodness, listen to this, then find a spot to start reading — with a friend preferably!

Join my Patreon to support this channel and access exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/c/RedeemedZoomerSummary of the Biblical narrative inspired by B...

05/24/2025

Maybe because in order for a square hole to fit into a round peg, you have to shave off every edge that makes that square what it is!!