06/23/2026
One of the biggest influences on whether a child keeps the faith is much closer to home.
Communio's new report with the Institute for Family Studies, Passing the Torch: How Faith Moves Across Generations, drawing on data from 60,000+ Americans, found that only 17% of fathers believe they're primarily responsible for how their kids learn about faith (vs. 39% of mothers).
Yet children who worship alongside both parents are dramatically more likely to keep the faith as adults. When parents regularly talk about faith at home, kids are twice as likely to pray, attend church, and call faith very important in young adulthood.
The takeaway for pastors: a dad may be the most important youth pastor in his home, and marriage and family stability are not separate from faith formation. They're the soil it grows in.
That's why the wider cultural data matters too. As families fracture and birth rates fall, the church's opportunity isn't to run one more program - it's to strengthen relationships at the root.
This is the work. Fix the home → strengthen the church → renew the community.
If you haven't done so yet, these are worth your time this week:
• Dad, you don't realize how much you matter — thebaptistpaper.org/first-person-dad-you-dont-realize-how-much-you-matter/
• The most important youth pastor in America? It might be dad — washingtonexaminer.com/.../4608254
• Fathers and faith formation — ifstudies.org/in-the-news/fathers-and-faith-formation
Faith is passed on at home, through strong fathers, marriages, and families.
We help churches build exactly that through a customized strategy and framework that has strengthened marriages and families in hundreds of churches across the country.
See how it could work in your church → www.communio.org
Communio is a nonprofit that trains and equips churches to evangelize through the renewal of healthy relationships, marriages, and the family.