07/25/2020
Happy Myles Day 🧡. Today marks 8 years since I heard that giggle. I got the best gift ever from the most talented Pete Devaprasad..he did an artist rendering of Myles and Marcelle if Myles lived to graduate. I...cant...stop...looking...at...it. I feel as if I was given the gift of stolen time. To see with my eyes what my heart and mind could only imagine. What a crazy time we live in. People are hurting, tired, angry and desperate. So for Myles Day I decided to do a Random Act of Kidness. 8 kids, 8 ice creams, 8 balloons all strangers. So I headed off to get orange balloons but alas seeing how the school colors arw black and orange there was no orange to be found so I went with the silver star. A star for every bright full year Myles had on earth. Next I had to wrangle an accomplice because face it people are used to be approached by masked strangers. Cheryl Swift McPhillips was free and, well, did she have an option? Off to Tastee Freeze we went. I approached the window and explained that we would like to buy the next 8 kids ice cream..I promised we wouldnt go far. Turns out the lady behind us heard me and said Yay Im buying for a kid. We handed her a ballon and so it began. There were kids who popped out of cars with their masks on eating ice cream ans holding their balloons yelling thank you with huge smiles on their face. We faced some opposition, first No you sont have to do that and then When I said please I want to...I got hesitant yes’s followed by why. Well, I can assure you nothing kills the buzz of free ice cream like a story about a boy that died too soon. Then it turned into I should buy you ice cream and I want to give you a hug. We left after paying for 9 and leaving a big tip for the ice cream girls. As only the McAdoos can do awkward, it was all of that. But in between the awkward, was toothless grins, ice cream smiles and little smiling eyes that told their parents to not let go of their balloons. It was simple, it was perfect. The kids were happy and maybe the parents went home and gave their kids an extra squeeze. I need to try to evoke Myles kindness and thoughtfulness more than I do. I will try son, I will try. Miss you every...single...day🧡 the world could really use you right now 💔