10/14/2026
ā¤ļø A little life update for everyone whoās been following my journey⦠ā¤ļø
If you wouldāve told me a few years ago that Iād be standing where I am today, I probably wouldāve laughed, cried, and told you that you had the wrong girl. But GOD knew exactly who He was creating me to become. šš¼ā¤ļø
Iām officially 2 AND A HALF YEARS CLEAN!!! š„¹šā¤ļø
Two and a half years of choosing recovery. Two and a half years of learning to love myself, forgive myself, and rebuild a life I once thought was too far gone. Has it been easy? ABSOLUTELY NOT. But has it been worth it? EVERY SINGLE SECOND.
Iām still working in nursing, taking care of people, and doing something that truly means a lot to me. Iām also helping manage a womenās sober living home, which is something Iām incredibly passionate about. If you or someone you know is looking for a safe place to start their recovery journey, PLEASE reach out to me! I would love to help. ā¤ļø
But thereās something else thatās been weighing heavily on my heart latelyā¦
My dream is to become an advocate for birth parents and survivors of domestic violence. š
Because I know what itās like to lose pieces of yourself. I know what itās like to carry guilt, shame, heartbreak, and pain that nobody else can see. I know what itās like to miss your children so much that it physically hurts. I know what itās like to feel completely alone in a room full of people, wishing you had just ONE person who understood.
And I know what itās like to have to pick yourself up when you donāt even have the strength to stand.
I donāt want the things Iāve been through to be for nothing.
I want my story to become somebody elseās survival guide.
I want to be the woman I once desperately needed. The shoulder somebody can cry on. The person who listens without judgment. The voice that reminds another woman that her past doesnāt define her, her mistakes donāt make her unworthy, and her story isnāt over.
I want birth parents to know that their grief matters. I want survivors of domestic violence to know they deserve safety, peace, and a life without fear. And I want women struggling with addiction to know that recovery IS possible.
Iām not perfect. I still have hard days. I still cry. I still struggle. Iām still healing from things I donāt always talk about.
But Iām also living proof that you can come from some pretty dark places and still become a light for somebody else. š¦
God didnāt bring me this far just so I could keep my testimony to myself.
So hereās to 2½ years clean, a career I love, helping other women find recovery, and chasing a dream thatās so much bigger than me.
I may not be able to change my past, but I can dang sure use it to help change somebody elseās future. ā¤ļø
And if youāre reading this and youāre struggling, please know my inbox is open. You donāt have to have the perfect words. You donāt have to explain your whole life. Sometimes all you need is somebody to say, āI hear you. Iāve been there. And youāre not alone.ā
Iām still here. Still healing. Still growing. Still fighting. And by the grace of God, Iām just getting started. šš¦