08/24/2026
You can’t guarantee what you’re getting either.
I’ve said it many times - there is no secret formula to ensuring you’re not marrying a loser. And if you think there is you reek of misogyny.
Because it’s not women’s job to be accountable for their husband’s behavior at any stage in their marriage.
If he doesn’t want to grow up with you after a baby, there’s no way of knowing that before you have one.