09/16/2026
Our dear friend, Kris Balkcom. There are no words to describe just how much the Balkcom family means to us. We are heartbroken over the loss of our friend. Heartbroken for his precious family and the Wednesday night crew. But we have hope. We have hope in God’s salvation. We have hope in knowing that Kris is walking the streets of gold and already farming the best row crops you’ve ever seen. We have hope in seeing our friend again. We know without a doubt that TJ was there to give the biggest hug to his buddy, welcome him to Heaven, and thank him for all the amazing things he did while on this earth. We can see them now - sharing the best stories, riding around on tractors and rangers, swimming in the creek, planting the most beautiful sunflowers, checking out the dove fields, and singing the best songs.
Kris and another dear friend are the inspiration behind the annual memorial dove hunt fundraiser for TJ's foundation. Kris and the Balkcom family said let’s do it! Let’s create the best memorial dove hunt ever. And that they did. Kris and the Balkcom family opened up their land, their barn, their resources and their time to create the annual TJ Northey Memorial Dove Hunt hosted by Balkcom Farms. With Kris’ vision, our amazing group of friends came together to create something more than we could have ever imagined. Kris believed. He believed in what we could all accomplish. He knew how big of impact we could make and what our group of friends could accomplish together. It became so much more than a dove hunt. It is a day of fellowship, all-day grilling, the best dove hunting, the kids running around playing in the dirt or in the rain having the best time, a night of singing together, all while raising scholarship funds. The memories we’ve created working on the hunts and the great times shared together the day of, are some of the best memories of our lives.
Kris’ impacts are immeasurable, and will continue to be immeasurable. His impact will live on. His dedication to give back to others is unlike any we’ve ever seen. His time, his advice, his equipment, his farm, his love, his laugh, his friendship. What a difference he made and will continue to make in the lives of so, so many.
The TJ Northey Memorial Foundation would not be what it is today without Kris and the Balkcom family. We are grateful for your love, dedication, and giving heart, but most of all, your friendship. With the donations received in memory of Kris, we will partner with Amy & family to create a Kris Balkcom Memorial Scholarship from the TJ Northey Memorial Foundation.
While we grieve your physical absence, we have hope. We have hope in knowing you will continue to impact the lives of so many for years and years to come - through your love, your inspiration, your dedication, your wisdom, your family, and your friends. We have hope because we will see our friend again. And what a joyous celebration it will be when we’re reunited with Kris & TJ. 💙🌈🌻
Gone from My Sight
I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side, spreads his white sails to the moving breeze and starts for the blue ocean. He is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch him until, at length, he hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then, someone at my side says, “There, he is gone.”
Gone where?
Gone from my sight. That is all. He is just as large in mast, hull and spar as he was when he left my side. And, he is just as able to bear his load of living freight to his destined port.
His diminished size is in me, not in him.
And, just at the moment when someone says, “There, he is gone,” other eyes are watching him coming, and other voices are ready to take up the glad shout, “Here he comes!”
We are sharing the below as some have inquired on how to make donations in memory of Kris via card/online options.
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