Action Youth Uganda

02/11/2024

28/10/2024

Beware of relationships with people without emotional intelligence.

They will never understand you, they will personalize everything and you will never be seen or heard.

Beware of relationships with people who cannot regulate their emotions, you will always be at the mercy of their anger and bad mood.

Beware of relationships with people without self-awareness, they have no idea how their behavior affects the people around them so it is only a matter of time before they get hurt.

Beware of relationships with people without empathy, they will never see or care how you feel. If no one ever told you, I am telling you now.

Look for people in your life with emotional intelligence, self-awareness, empathy, and the ability to regulate their emotions, otherwise you will be at the mercy of their dysfunction and pay the price for their immaturity and lack of growth.

25/10/2024

This life eh

The wife checked her husband's phone and found these names:
Tender one Amazing one Lady of my dreams

She called the Tender One and his mother answered. Then called the Amazing One and his sister answered!

When she called the Lady of my Dreams, HER phone rang!!!

She cried until she got her eyes swollen because she doubted her husband, so she gave him her one month salary to make up for her sin.

When his mother learnt of the story, she sold her jewellery and gave her son the money.

The husband took the money and bought a gift for his girlfriend whose name was saved as "Kudakwashe the Electrician"

22/10/2024

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

A book written by Robert Greene that offers a series of strategies for obtaining and maintaining power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 laws:

1. Don't outshine the boss: Make your superiors feel superior. Don't expose your talent too much or you might trigger their insecurity.

2. Don't trust friends too much, use your enemies: Friends betray you more easily, but if you manage to win an enemy, they will be more loyal.

3. Hide your intentions: Keep people off balance so they can't anticipate your actions.

4. Always say less than necessary: Silence breeds power, and talking too much reveals your plans.

5. Protect your reputation at all costs: Reputation is the cornerstone of power.

6. Call attention at all costs: Be visible to be relevant.

7. Make others work for you and attribute it: Take advantage of the work and effort of others to your advantage.

8. Make others come to you: Don't run after others, make them look for you.

9. Win with actions, never arguments: Prove your point through actions, not words.

10. Avoid losers and unhappy: The misfortune of others is contagious; stay away from those who bring you down.

11. Make people depend on you: If others depend on you, you're in control.

12. Disarm with sincerity and selective generosity: Emotional disarmament will give you an edge.

13. When you ask for help, appeal to the interests of others: Appeal to what benefits others, not gratitude or compassion.

14. Introduce yourself as a friend, act as a spy: Learn to extract valuable information from others without them noticing.

15. Crush your enemy completely: Do not let your enemy recover, or he will seek revenge.

16. Use absence to increase respect: The value of something increases with scarcity..

17. Keep others in suspense: Be unpredictable, you will confuse others and gain power.

18. Do not isolate yourself: Loneliness weakens you; engage yourself in the web of influence.

19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.

20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your independence so you don't get caught up in other people's affairs.

21. Pretend to be a fool to catch the sly: Let others think they have an advantage over you.

22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the right time gives you the advantage.

23. Focus your forces: Keep your energy focused on what really matters.

24. Be a master at simulation and disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.

25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.

26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.

27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.

28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.

29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.

30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.

31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.

32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.

33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.

34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.

35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.

36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.

37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.

38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.

39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.

40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.

41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.

42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.

44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.

46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.

47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.

48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.

These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

16/10/2024

My wife is my wife, her past is her past. If you've ever slept with her or you know people who have slept with her, that's your problem.

Every woman has a past she surely regrets and every good human being makes mistakes, but that doesn't prevent her from being an ideal woman for another man.

I don chop am before no mean anything to us.
Won't stop us from marrying her. She's a class of her own, there's a queen in her.
You saw only S*X, We saw FUTURE 💯.

Brothers, let's take the time to make them happy, to value and to get others to respect our women instead of taking the time to listen to criticisms of our women while promoting/encouraging hypocrites to denigrate our women.

Past is past, yesterday can never come again, it was a lesson, it was a process that helps remoulded our lives for the now and later.

We'll never be kids again, we're growing each day.

Don't be tired of learning as long as life keeps teaching. Thank you for reading

04/10/2024

This is the largest artificial beach in the world, located in Miyazaki, Japan. The Seagaia Ocean Dome is approximately the size of 6 football fields and can accommodate up to 10,000 people simultaneously. It also has a retractable roof, which opens on hot days and closes on rainy or cold days. In addition to having shops and attractions, it has artificial waves up to 2 meters high and even has an artificial volcano that is activated every 15 minutes.

12/09/2024

THINGS TO TEACH YOUR SON:

1. Never shake a man’s hand sitting down.

2. Don’t enter a pool by the stairs.

3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.

4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.

5. Request the late check-out.

6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.

7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.

8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.

9. Play with passion or don’t play at all…

10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.

11. Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.

12. If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.

13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.

14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.

15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.

16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.

17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.

18. Never turn down a breath mint.

20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.

22. Eat lunch with the new kid.

23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.

24. Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.

25. Manners maketh the man.

26. Give credit. Take the blame.

27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.

28. Write down your dreams.

29. Take time to snuggle your pets, they love you so much and are always happy to see you.

30. Be confident and humble at the same time.

31. If ever in doubt, remember whose son you are and REFUSE to just be ordinary!

32. In all things lead by example not explanation.

33. Dress how you want to be addressed.

34. BE BLESSED BY BEING A BLESSING.

04/09/2024

I hate people judging my life without knowing how i suffer.

01/07/2024

I told my son, "You will marry the girl I choose."
He said, "NO!"
I told him, "She is Bill Gates' daughter."
He said, "OK."
I called Bill Gates and said, "I want your daughter to marry my son."
Bill Gates said, "NO."
I told Bill Gates, My son is the CEO of World Bank."
Bill Gates said, "OK."
I called the President of World Bank and asked him to make my son the CEO.
He said, "NO?"
I told him, "My son is Bill Gates' son-in-law."
He said, "OK."
This is exactly how politics works...

30/03/2024

The older I get a few friend I have but you don’t need a lot of the ones you g*t always have your back .