17/09/2024
WORDIFY2024
BEFORE THE VOW
Marriage isn’t just about the romance and the perfect wedding day.
It’s about getting real, raw, and honest with each other before you make the decision of that lifelong commitment.
Too many people walk into marriage with unspoken expectations, only to be blindsided by regret when reality sets in.
Before you walk down the aisle, you need to sit down and have the hard conversations. What can you tolerate, and what’s a no-go for you? If you avoid these discussions now, you’re setting yourself up for frustration and disappointment later.
If you’re actively serving in the church, but your partner doesn’t see it the same way, that’s a conversation you need to have now. If you're the type that is deeply rooted in family traditions, and your partner is an "I don't care kind of person" talk about it now before it becomes a silent battle.
These things might seem small now, but may grow into real issues if left unspoken.
If you want a fairy tale kind of marriage that you've read in books and watch in movies, communicate it.
Love alone won't fix everything in marriage.
There have mutual respect, understanding, and knowing where each of you stands. If you don’t have these talks now, love can turn into resentment faster than you think.
So, before you say "I do," get everything out in the open. Talk about your values, your deal-breakers, and what you won’t compromise on. It’s not about being difficult—it’s about setting a strong foundation. A marriage built on honesty and communication is the one that stands the test of time.
Don’t wait until regret knocks on the door. Have the important conversations now and build a marriage that thrives on clarity and mutual understanding.
The bible says it's small foxes that destroy/ruin the vineyard, so catch them early. They wait when it's blossoming (Song of Solomon 2:15).
Blessed night sons & daughters of Elohim!!!
~Compiled by PST J MURUNGA