30/09/2026
Safety is not built by asking survivors to protect themselves. It is built by demanding that communities refuse to tolerate harm.
When s*xual violence occurs in closed social spaces, the immediate question should never be "Why didn't they leave?" or "What were they wearing?" The question must always be: Who saw something and said nothing? Who enabled the environment? Who protected the space instead of the person?
The details surrounding cases like Chi Phi highlight a pervasive, dangerous culture of bystander complicity. From private group chats where warning signs are ignored to peer networks that enforce codes of silence, harm thrives in the quiet approval of passive witnesses.
Accountability means holding everyone in the room responsible for the culture they allow to exist.
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