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23/08/2026

What does it mean to be a man today?

We’re grateful to be featured in CNA TODAY’s Big Read on the changing views of masculinity and traditional gender roles among men in Singapore.

At Fellowship of Men Singapore (FMS), we believe the conversation about masculinity shouldn’t be about asking men to become less masculine.

It should be about developing healthier models of masculinity.

There is nothing inherently wrong with strength, courage, providing for your family or wanting to protect the people you love.

The question we should be asking is:

What do we do with that strength?

Can we be strong without being violent?

Can we be honest about our struggles without feeling ashamed?

Can we ask for help without believing that makes us weak?

Can we take responsibility when we get something wrong?

And can we be there for another brother — not only when things are going well, but when he is struggling too?

Over the past six months, our FMS community has grown from 17 to 80 men. To us, that growth says something important: men are looking for places where they can connect, have honest conversations and encounter healthier examples of what masculinity can look like.

We don’t believe men need to abandon masculinity.

We believe we need to broaden it.

Strength without violence.
Honesty without shame.
Brotherhood without judgment.

Thank you to CNA TODAY for including Fellowship of Men Singapore and our perspective in this important conversation.

📸 Photos/screenshots: CNA / CNA TODAY
Article photo credit as published by CNA: CNA/Lim Li Ting

20/08/2026

Hello guys! Our weekly blog is now out in our website !! come on and have a look!!

When most people hear the word trauma, they imagine a major life-threatening event: violence, abuse, war, a serious accident, or a natural disaster.

19/08/2026

Is jealousy a sign of love?

At our next Cooking & Conversations session on 17 October, we’ll be exploring jealousy, insecurity, trust, and boundaries in relationships.

When does jealousy come from care, and when can it become controlling, unhealthy, or harmful?

Through honest conversation, we’ll look at how men can better understand their emotions, communicate more safely, and manage conflict without damaging the relationships that matter most.

📅 17 October 2026, 11am to 2pm
📍 HCSA Academy

Interested in joining us?

👉 DM us to register

Come for the cooking. Stay for the conversation.

14/08/2026

Not every struggle is visible.

Sometimes it looks like someone becoming quieter.
Pulling away.
Not showing up.
Or simply saying, “I’m okay.”

We don’t always need to have the right words or the answers. Sometimes, we just need to notice — and check in.

Ask twice. Stay a little longer. Listen without judgement.

Because strength isn’t only about carrying our own struggles. It’s also about creating space for someone else to put theirs down.

We can change how we see strength.
We can make space for vulnerability.
And we can be there for one another.

Men becoming better — together.

12/08/2026

WEEKLY BLOG IS UP! Come on and have a peak!🫡

Whose Voice Is That? Changing the Way We Speak to Ourselves

12/08/2026

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/domestic-abuse-family-violence-self-reporting-seeking-help-6311901

One mother sought help after hitting her son whenever she lost patience, making him fearful and constantly on edge.

09/08/2026

This National Day, we celebrate more than a nation.
We celebrate the people in it.

The families we build.
The communities we strengthen.
The friendships we protect.
And the future we help shape together.

At Fellowship of Men Singapore, we believe that a stronger nation is built through stronger men, healthier relationships, and a deeper sense of responsibility toward one another.

As we mark Singapore’s birthday, may we continue to look out for one another, uplift our brothers, and do our part to build a society marked by strength, honesty, and brotherhood.

Happy National Day, Singapore 🇸🇬

Being Better Men — Together.

06/08/2026

Helo there! our latest blog just got updated ! come check it out!

Luxury isn't what your child will remember.

04/08/2026