Dr Kenneth Goh EQ Workshop

19/09/2024

Emotions are like the weather—constantly changing, never permanent. Some days bring sunshine, others bring storms, but every moment passes, making room for something new. 🌦️ Embrace it all!

17/09/2024

Remember the following text:

This acronym, TIE, is about exercising optimism when times are tough. It stands for Temporary, Isolated, and Effort. An example of how this acronym can be used is below:

Temporary: I failed, but at some point, I will get better. Nothing lasts forever.

Isolated: I failed at X, affecting some things but not everything.

Effort: I failed this time, but I will try something new next time. I haven’t tried everything yet!

Six Seconds EQ

10/05/2024

Take some time to reflect on what you need to add to your garden to help different aspects of your life grow, such as independence, trust, or empathy.

You can try drawing your own garden and adding to it the different areas of your life that you want to improve.

Learn more on Sixseconds.org

26/04/2024

Authenticity matters greatly. Consider how often you default to "good, thanks" when asked, "how are you?" Opening up benefits not just yourself but also those around you. Here are a few alternatives you might consider for your responses!

26/04/2024

This statement by the incomparable underscores the importance of tuning into your emotions, identifying the most powerful feeling, and giving it your attention.

15/04/2024

Regret is synonymous with remorse and is an emotion that falls between sadness and disgust.

It signals that you’ve missed an opportunity, but you can use that experience to learn and grow from it.

09/04/2024

Hey there! Did you know that feeling safe and accepted is super important for a sense of belonging? So make sure that your personal life and work environment meet these two basic needs. Take care!

05/04/2024

Frequently, we find ourselves dwelling on our errors without progressing beyond them.

Rather than extracting lessons from these missteps, we permit them to burden us, influencing every decision we undertake.

We persist in bearing the weight of each mistake until we're entrenched so deeply that rising seems impossible.

When faced with a new mistake, consider it as an opportunity to advance rather than an obstacle. Embrace it as a stepping stone to forge your path ahead.

Remember, the only path forward is to persistently keep moving.

30/03/2024

A powerful quote from Jack Welch! It's so true that even as a boss, there's always so much to learn and many ways to grow. It's important to keep an open mind and perspective to stay receptive to new ideas.

28/03/2024

Motivation and relationship are two important traits that are crucial for fostering a healthy and productive work environment. A boss who genuinely cares about the well-being of their employees and supports them through challenges is more likely to earn their loyalty and dedication in return.

28/03/2024

Here are 7 Lessons distilled from the book "Setting Boundaries and Finding Peace" by Nedra Glover Tawwab:

1. Recognize Your Boundaries: Recognizing and respecting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy and gratifying relationships. First, it's important to identify the boundaries that serve you best by reflecting on your values, requirements, and energy levels. This involves recognizing activities or behaviors that drain you or cause discomfort and establishing clear boundaries regarding your time, energy, and communication preferences.

2. Effective Communication: Effective communication is key to articulating your boundaries clearly to others. Instead, use "I" statements to convey how specific behaviours impact you and what you require. Be direct yet respectful in communicating your expectations.

3. Self-Respect and Mutual Respect: Setting boundaries is an act of self-respect rather than selfishness. It also demonstrates respect for the boundaries of others. By communicating effectively, healthier relationships can thrive.

4. Focus on Self-Control: Focus on managing your own actions and responses. You cannot compel others to honor your boundaries. However, you can distance yourself from those who consistently disregard them.

5. Guilt as a Signal, Not a Guide: Avoid allowing guilt to dictate your actions. Recognize instances of guilt-tripping and manipulative tactics others employ to breach your boundaries. Establishing boundaries is a form of self-care, not an endeavour to please everyone.

6. The Assertive "No": Master confidently and unapologetically saying "no." Understand that "no" is a complete sentence. There's no need to elaborate or justify when your boundaries are being violated.

7. Boundary Flexibility: Recognize that your needs and circumstances may evolve. You should regularly assess and adapt your boundaries accordingly. Embrace the process of adjusting boundaries to foster healthy and gratifying relationships.

Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

26/03/2024

This quote emphasizes that true happiness comes from within oneself rather than external sources. It suggests that while it may be challenging to cultivate happiness internally, seeking it externally—through material possessions, relationships, or other means—is ultimately futile.

Here's an explanation of the quote:

1. **Difficult to find happiness within oneself:** This part acknowledges that achieving inner happiness is not always easy. It requires self-reflection, personal growth, and sometimes overcoming obstacles like negative thoughts or past traumas.

2. **Impossible to find it anywhere else:** This part suggests that external sources, such as material wealth or the approval of others, cannot provide lasting happiness. While they may bring temporary pleasure or satisfaction, they are not sustainable sources of true fulfillment.

Imagine someone who constantly seeks happiness through external means. They may buy expensive possessions, pursue superficial relationships, or chase fame and success. However, despite their efforts, they find themselves feeling empty and unfulfilled. They realize that no matter how much they acquire or how many people they surround themselves with, they cannot find lasting happiness until they address their inner struggles and cultivate a sense of contentment and peace within themselves.

Alternatively, consider someone who focuses on self-improvement, practices gratitude, and nurtures their passions and relationships. Despite facing challenges and setbacks, they find a deep sense of fulfillment and joy in their everyday life because they have learned to find happiness within themselves rather than relying on external factors.

In both examples, the quote's message becomes evident: while external sources may offer fleeting happiness, true and lasting fulfillment can only be found by looking inward and nurturing one's own sense of happiness and well-being.