25/09/2026
What makes a coachee feel truly seen? That question sat at the heart of Dr Marcia Reynolds session.
Raised in a family that encouraged conversation and questions, Marcia found herself in a conservative school where teachers saw her as disruptive. That changed when one teacher chose to sit beside her. For the first time, someone accepted her as she is and she felt heard and seen
It led to a question for all of us: what do we do as coaches to make our coachees feel witnessed and valued?
Recalling our own moments of being fully seen, the chat filled with words like ""understood"", ""validated"", ""respected"" and ""I exist"". A simple exercise, and a strong reminder of what our presence gives.
🎯 Key takeaways:
* Coaching presence is co-regulation. When clients feel safe and valued, they become open to explore
* The brain prefers self-preservation over self-actualisation, so thinking beyond our own story often needs a thinking partner
* Start by coaching slowly. See what the client sees, then explore what they want instead
* Clients want us to be present, not perfect
* Presence + Skills = Flow
The live demo brought it all to life. Marcia embodied presence and deep listening, moving the conversation forward through reflective statements and well-timed questions. A big thank you to Mediko Azwar for stepping into the coachee seat and being so open in front of everyone. 🙏
Our heartfelt gratitude to Dr Marcia Reynolds, MCC, who joined us at 4am her time to share her wisdom with our community.
Thank you all who reflected honestly and filled the chat with such thoughtful contributions.
Sincere appreciation to the ICF Singapore Credentialing & Practice team, Janice See Yan Mei Tan for continuing to create these spaces for our community.
Keen to keep growing with fellow coaches.
🧭 Beyond the Framework: Developing Coaching Fluency
📅 Monday, 5 October 2026
⏰ 8:00 PM to 9:30 PM SGT
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📅 Thursday, 8 October 2026
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