07/08/2023
One of my biggest challenges as a speaker is that I talk too fast. I find it difficult to pause while speaking. I believe it's because I think quickly and, unconsciously, assume that everyone listening thinks just as fast.
Of course, that's not the case. And even if the listeners were thinking as fast as I am, I don't give them the space to reflect on what I'm saying. It's no coincidence that stand-up comedians speak slowly and pause frequently. They allow the audience to immerse themselves in the storyteller's tale, paint their own mental picture of what's happening, and when they reach the punchline, they let the audience pause in the narrative so they can enjoy their comedic inner vision. They wait for the audience to finish laughing before moving on with their repertoire. They want to give the listeners full value for their money.
It's like letting the listeners savor a hard candy. Feel the shape, flavors, and hardness, and suddenly the candy breaks, releasing the delicious contrast you've been longing for. You pause, and slowly let your tongue move in your mouth, allowing the flavors of the core to spread out over your entire tongue to maximize the taste experience.
Compare that to quickly biting off the candy to get to the good part. But instead of a smooth transition, you feel shards poking your tongue, and the crushed candy gets wedged into the gaps between your teeth. Both flavors now mix, and you can't enjoy either one separately. And once you've swallowed the candy, you spend 10 minutes with the tip of your tongue trying to dislodge the crushed candy stuck between your teeth.
In addition, pausing when you speak is a powerful way to make your listeners perk up. It's like a Netflix "cliff-hanger." The audience holds its breath, eagerly waiting for you to continue and reveal what you're going to say next.
Try pausing when you talk today and see how the people you're conversing with react.
Regards
Rodolfo Camps
Vice President Public Relations