Pakistan's Young Leaders NUML

06/12/2024

*Some people hold us in high esteem, even when we're facing challenges.*

Today, I want to emphasize the importance of recognizing genuine relationships and distinguishing between Mukhlis and Munafiq individuals.
Many people come into our lives, but only a few become special parts of our journey. These special people are not special by words but they contribute to our lives in meaningful ways.
Being considered a special part of someone's life is a significant honor .
But question rises here that how can we distinguish between Mukhlis and Hypocrite?
Following are some key signs:
*Mukhlis People*
1) They're overjoyed to be considered a source of support and will go to great lengths to help.
2)They try their best to assist, using all available means.
3) They stand by you through thick and thin, never hesitating to take favors on your behalf.
4) They feel uncomfortable until you're free from the hurdle you are suffering from.
5) They prioritize your happiness above their own interests.

On the other hand, hypocrite people exhibit the following traits:
1)They maintain relationships for personal gain, whether immediate or future.
2) They pretend to assist but don't follow through.
3) They treat others as inferiors
4) They make excuses, ignore calls and messages, and don't genuinely try to help.
5)They pretend to be busy and eventually claim that they tried for you but all in vain.
I remember the words of a wise man:

منافق لوگ دوستانہ اور مخلص لگ سکتے ہیں، لیکن وہ اصل میں اپنے حقیقی ارادوں اور احساسات کو چھپاتے ہیں.
This is my personal opinion.
However, Wallahu aleemum bizaatissudooor.

(Allah knows the secrets of hearts.)

02/12/2024

Two aspirants: A non fictional story.
Once upon a time, two like-minded people were talking about their goals in a garden.
"A" who had all facilities and family support, was in high spirits, excitedly narrating his strategies and plannings for acing CSS exam.
"B" who had no such facilities , was listening him carefully.
"A" was enthusiastic while "B" seemed anxious about his future.

"A" said , Dear, I don't think you can ace the CSS exam . For acing the CSS exam one needs to be fine mentally, physically and financially. Neither you have such facilities nor mental support so how could you manage 12 subjects? Making fun of B , he went away.

Time passed by, both met at ministry of foreign services , Islamabad after 3 years.
"A" was serving as Upper division clerk while "B" was serving as Foreign services Officer .

Moral of the story: Never conclude a person by his/her present situation because time has a great power if it can change a coal into a valuable diamond why can't man!

Hank Aaron said, The only thing that feels better than winning is winning when nobody thought you could.
In 1640, George Herbert said," where there's a will , there's way.

Allah says in the Holy Qur'an, " Man gets what he strives for" .

30/11/2024

Where there's a will, there is a way .

30/11/2024

MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE. HERE ARE 14 SIGNS YOU ARE MATURE :

You are not scared to be alone.

You realize money is not evil. Lack of money is.

You know that you are your worst enemy and you are your best supporter too.

You realize that life's much better when no one knows anything about you.

You don't care what other people think about you anymore.

You stop chasing meaningless relationships and focus on improving yourself.

You focus more on the opportunity of learning than the risk of failure.

You don't stress about things that are out of your control.

You understand that 9-5 won't help you achieve financial freedom.

You understand that you get paid based on the value you are providing.

In the real world, grades aren't the only measure of value. Connections, background, and practical skills often surpass academic performance. While grades may open doors.

You understand that life's much better when you focus on improving yourself rather than partying every weekend.

You realize that in the end only your family and a few true friends will be there for you.

You also realize that in the end, even your family and friends will leave you, only the God remains with you.

01/10/2024

A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way.

01/10/2024

11/12/2023

.بھروسہ صرف رب کی زات پر کرو

لوگوں کا کیا ہے چھوڑ جاتے ہیں یا توڑ جاتے ہیں ❤️

19/11/2023

You were born with potential. You were born with goodness & trust. You were born with ideals & dreams. You were born with greatness. You were born with wings. You are not meant for crawling. So don't.
You have wings. Learn to use them and fly." - (Rumi)

19/11/2023

You don’t lead by pointing and telling people some place to go. You lead by going to that place and making a case..

28/10/2023

Stay away from those people who try to disparage your ambitions. Small minds will always do that, but great minds will give you a feeling that you can become great too.

08/09/2023

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