26/08/2025
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๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐?
Fellow parents, we need to know our limitations. As I always say, ๐ผ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ท๐ฎ๐ป๐ด, ๐ฎ๐น๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐, ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐. Their coaches know their strengths and capabilities more than anyone else during a match.
Sadly, ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐, ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐.
Yes, itโs okay to feel frustrated. Itโs okay to raise your voice at your kids for a short time just to release your disappointment. Weโre parents, and thatโs normal. But yelling everywhere, and worst of all, yelling at the coaches, is not right. ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
I witnessed co-parents who refuse to follow simple rules. Organizers would keep reminding during the tournaments: โ๐ก๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฎ, ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐.โ Yet some still go near the mats, ignoring the rules. Some parents shout not only to cheer for their kids but even curse the opponents.
I even noticed some co-parents shouting during their kidsโ games, as if they were the coaches. The result? The kids end up confused, not knowing where to look or who to listen to, their coach right beside them giving proper guidance, or their parents whose almost angry tone makes it seem like they know everything, as if they were the coach.
It is not always going to be a win for our kids. Even national team players who are already skilled and experienced face defeats. So how much more for our children who are still learning and growing?
So letโs reflect, fellow parents: ๐๐ถ๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐ท๐๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ถ๐ป ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐น๐? ๐ข๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐๐ผ ๐ด๐ฟ๐ผ๐, ๐๐ผ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ป ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฝ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ?
Maybe there had already been misunderstandings long before the game. We donโt really know the whole story of what happened recently. But one thing is certain, we can avoid these kinds of scenarios if we, as parents, choose to be better examples.โฅ๏ธ
๐๐ฒ๐โ๐ ๐๐๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ.
๐๐ฒ๐โ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ๐, ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ.
๐๐ฒ๐โ๐ ๐ด๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ, ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ.
๐๐ฒ๐โ๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐ผ๐ป, ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐๐๐น๐ฒ๐.
โ๐๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ข๐บ ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ด ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ, ๐ฃ๐ถ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ต๐ณ๐ถ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ค๐ต ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ค๐ช๐ฑ๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐จ๐ถ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ช๐ง๐ฆ.โ
- Miss Anj C.
