22/06/2026
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BEFORE JUDGING, TRY UNDERSTANDING | “Have you ever noticed how easy it is to see the faults of other people, but how difficult it is to see our own?
If your neighbor gains weight, you notice it immediately. If a co-worker makes a mistake, you remember it for weeks. If a politician commits an error, social media never forgets. But when it comes to our own faults, suddenly we become very understanding. We say: “Nobody is perfect.” “You don’t know my situation.” “I had my reasons.”
In today’s Gospel, Jesus speaks about a very common human tendency: the tendency to judge others while excusing ourselves. He asks: “Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own eye?”
The image is almost humorous. Imagine a man with a huge wooden beam sticking out of his eye trying to remove a tiny speck from another person’s eye.
Jesus is making us laugh a little. But His message is serious. Before criticizing others, examine yourself. Before correcting others, correct yourself. Before pointing a finger, look in the mirror.
The truth is that many of our conflicts begin because we spend more time inspecting the faults of others than examining our own hearts.
A husband complains that his wife is impatient, but he himself is difficult to live with. A wife criticizes her husband for not listening, but she herself rarely listens. Parents complain that their children spend too much time on their phones while they themselves are glued to social media.
Even in church, it can happen. We sometimes say: “That person never attends Mass.” “That family is problematic.” “That politician is corrupt.” Perhaps all of that may be true. But Jesus reminds us that before looking outward, we must first look inward.
One reason why social media has become so toxic is because everyone has become an expert in judging everyone else. People judge others without knowing the whole story. One photo, one mistake, one rumor, and suddenly people are condemned.
Yet if our own weaknesses were displayed for the whole world to see, we would hope for understanding and mercy. And that brings us to an important point. Jesus is not saying that we should never recognize wrongdoing. He is not telling us to ignore evil or pretend that everything is okay. Rather, He is teaching us to approach others with humility.
There is a big difference between correcting someone and condemning someone. Correction comes from love.Condemnation comes from pride. Correction says: “I want to help you become better.” Condemnation says: “I am better than you.”
Jesus wants us to be people who help others grow, not people who enjoy pointing out their failures.
I once heard a beautiful saying: “Be kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.”
The person who seems rude may be carrying a heavy burden. The person who seems distant may be struggling with depression. The person who made a mistake may already be suffering from guilt and regret.
Only God sees the whole story. Only God sees the heart. That is why humility is so important.
The saints became holy not because they spent their lives criticizing others. They became holy because they spent their lives converting themselves. They focused on removing the beam from their own eye.
My dear brothers and sisters,
Perhaps the challenge of today’s Gospel is simple: Before speaking about someone else’s faults, spend a few moments looking at your own. Before posting a criticism online, ask yourself if it is charitable. Before judging, try understanding. Before condemning, try praying.
And when you see someone fall, do not ask, “How could they do that?” Instead ask, “How can I help them get back up?” Because at the end of the day, we all stand before the same God. And the God from whom we seek mercy is asking us to show mercy to others.
The less we judge, the more we understand. The more we understand, the more we love. And the more we love, the more we become like Christ.”
— Cebu Archbishop Alberto “Abet” Uy
Maymay sa Magbalantay | 22 June 2026
