11/05/2026
Abbey's Rider Story
For more than five years, Tauranga RDA has been one of Abbey’s favourite places in the world — a place where she feels safe, supported, and completely herself.
At the heart of Abbey’s journey is Bear, her favourite horse. “Bear is my favourite because he is handsome with two colours in his coat,” she says. “He also likes to go fast, and so do I.” Riding Bear brings Abbey joy, freedom, and confidence, helping her feel brave every time she climbs into the saddle.
The people at RDA have also played a huge role in Abbey’s growth. Her current volunteer, Marta, brings fun and encouragement to every session. Abbey also holds a special place in her heart for Cathy, the first volunteer who made her feel brave enough to truly use her voice. “Cathy is kind, calm, encouraging, gentle and makes me feel safe,” Abbey says.
For Abbey, RDA is far more than riding lessons. It is a place where she feels she belongs. “I love everything about the RDA. It’s my favourite place to be,” she shares. “When I am on a horse, I feel like I am home.”
Through riding, Abbey has experienced remarkable personal growth. RDA has helped her build confidence, improve balance and coordination, strengthen concentration, and develop greater awareness of her body. Most importantly, it has given her the confidence to speak up, make friends, and feel accepted by people outside of her family.
Riding independently “off the rein” has become a particularly proud achievement for Abbey, giving her a powerful sense of independence and accomplishment. Time with the horses also helps her regulate emotions, feel calm, and build trust — both in herself and in the horses she rides.
“RDA is my happy place,” Abbey says.
Abbey loves telling others about her experience and wants everyone to know that RDA is a welcoming place where people are encouraged to be themselves. “It is the best place and everyone is welcome. You should all come along!”
Abbey and her family are deeply grateful to the volunteers, coaches, supporters, and horses who make RDA possible. “Thank you RDA for all you have given me and other children,” she says. “Thank you to all the volunteers and coaches who give up their time to support me. Thank you to all the horses who have let me ride them and trusted me.”
