15/09/2026
Kia ora! There's some interesting feedback from the youth perspective. Whilst a ban for under 16's seems great on the surface, like most band-aid responses it doesn't really fix the underlying concerns with youth and their interaction with the online world.
1. Putting in bans is the easiest response that requires little to no effort from the government, families and the wider community. It's lazy.
2. Trying to put the 'genie back in the bottle' to a generation that have already had access and exposure to social media for years is simply not going to work, and actually force rangatahi to sneak around, lie and access it anyway.
3. We (adults) provided them with this technology, and its such a large part of their lives now - it will only increase.
4. The most difficult response and therefore the best response starts at home in the family with:
- Safe, open, honest conversations with your children about what is healthy and what is problematic about what they see online.
- Provide pathways for them to ask questions about things they are curious about, or things they don't understand, and do it without the fear of judgement, shame or embarrassment.
- Build their critical thinking skills and digital literacy so they can feel empowered to safely navigate the online world.
- Role model appropriate, balanced phone time inside the home. Be on the journey together.
A student-led survey found 65.8% of respondents opposed a social media ban.