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15/06/2026

Elder Abuse Awareness Week (15-22 June 2026)

Elder Abuse Awareness Week is an important time to raise awareness, encourage conversations, and support the older people in our lives and in our community.

Elder abuse can take many forms including financial, emotional, physical, sexual or even neglect. It can often be difficult to recognise, and even harder to speak about.

As the cost of living gets more and more challenging, we are seeing signs of increases in financial abuse of older people.

It can be hard to pick up on the subtleties that are weaved into any type of abuse as it really does come in all shapes and sizes. With financial elder abuse, the abusers are often closely connected and have some kind of bond with their victim.

Things to watch out for are:
• Any adult using someone's home and assets without contributing to the costs.
• The creation of, or changes to, wills and enduring powers of attorney (EPAs) can sometimes be cause for concern.
• Strange transactions. Unpaid bills, lack of spending money and unusual looking withdrawals from accounts
• New names being added to bank accounts and other accounts or assets, like property ownership.
• Change in behaviour of the older person - becoming withdrawn from friends and family.
• Change in behaviour of a caregiver, family member or other trusted person.
• An adult child organises for their parent to move their parent’s legal work away from their own longstanding family solicitor to a new law firm.

Scam Relationships

Unfortunately, financial and psychological abuse are often intertwined and are weaponised by people wanting to exploit vulnerable people for financial gain.
o These situations can be disguised as genuine relationships, with perpetrators presenting themselves as friends, companions or often as a romantic relationship.

Things to watch out for here include:
• A person or people previously unknown to a victim suddenly becoming a part of their day-to-day life or an unlikely suitor claiming a legitimate romantic connection.
• Romance scams are often run via phone or internet, so any new relationship that is not face to face is another red flag.

Misuse of enduring powers of attorney (EPAs)

While EPAs are an important part of planning ahead and offer good protection, they are not a total safeguard against financial abuse. Would you be able to spot misuse of EPAs? Sadly, this kind of abuse is often carried out by close family and friends as the older person who has appointed them to be their attorney, trusting that they would act honourably.

This kind of abuse can take different forms:
• Embezzlement.
• A display of entitlement to someone's belongings.
• Denying someone's access to care services like a rest home
• Conversely, the situation of an attorney placing someone prematurely in care to suit their own agenda.
• Selling a home without the knowledge or permission of the rightful owner(s).
• A property attorney could try to direct a solicitor to deposit proceeds of the sale of an older person’s house into an account jointly owned by the older person and the property attorney.

Where to get help

You can seek advice from an independent organisation with experience like Age Concern about how to approach a situation you have queries about. Approaching a potential abuser directly can increase harm for an older person.

Age Concern Waikato: 150 Grantham Street, Hamilton Central, 3204
Phone: 07 838 2266
Email: [email protected]

• Call 111 if you think someone is in immediate danger and needs urgent help or 105 for non-emergency support
• Elder Abuse Response Service is a confidential, 24-hour free helpline. Phone 0800 EA NOT OK or 0800 32 668 65, or text 5032
• Age Concern - 0800 652 105 – please call for free and confidential advice
• Email [email protected]

Stalking and harassment – new lawsStalking and harassment often form part of the abuse endured by victims of family viol...
27/05/2026

Stalking and harassment – new laws
Stalking and harassment often form part of the abuse endured by victims of family violence, during and after they physically remove themselves from the perpetrator. From 26 May 2026, new laws give Police the power to serve a stalking and harassment notice or charge someone with a stalking and harassment offence.

Stalking is defined as a pattern of obsessive, unwanted, and repeated behaviour where a person carries out any specified act towards another person on at least two separate occasions within two years, knowing their behaviour is likely to cause fear or distress and undermines a victim’s sense of safety and wellbeing.
Stalking and harassment can be focused on one person alone, or can also include your family and whanau relationships, and by any means, including in-person and online.

For more information on the new laws, what they mean, and how to recognise stalking, look at our information for victims of stalking factsheet - https://lnkd.in/ew6HMrN6

If you think they’re being stalked, call Police on 105 or report it online. Or if you are in immediate danger, call 111. For other specialist support services, or more information on stalking, go to https://lnkd.in/esrr5bAV

Additional information -
https://www.linkedin.com/posts/nz-police_stalking-and-harassment-is-a-crime-activity-7464797349328916480-Lzof?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAABSQy9wB55VuzfeKhfdv3TiLCtSj1zAAuno

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗺𝗲. From today, new laws give Police the power to serve a stalking and harassment notice or charge someone with a stalking and harassment offence. These new laws mean our staff can ...

White Ribbon Day – November 25th White Ribbon Day, also known as the International Day for the Elimination of Violence A...
02/11/2025

White Ribbon Day – November 25th
White Ribbon Day, also known as the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, is a global observance dedicated to raising awareness about and taking action to prevent violence against women and girls. It serves as a reminder of the importance of addressing gender-based violence and promoting gender equality.
The white ribbon itself is a symbol of men’s commitment to ending violence against women, with men pledging to be part of the solution to this pervasive problem. It is observed on November 25th each year and marks the beginning of the “16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence,” a global campaign that runs until December 10th, International Human Rights Day.
New Zealand Intimate Partner Violence Research
A recently released research report by Women’s Refuge is based on the lived experiences of more than 1,700 women and non-binary victims, and shows that leaving an abusive partner doesn’t end the violence — and that for many, safety remains out of reach due to broken systems.
“This research shows us that risk does not stop when a relationship ends,” says Dr Natalie Thorburn, Principal Policy Advisor at Women’s Refuge. “Victims continue to carry the mental, emotional, physical, and financial costs of violence for years — sometimes decades — after leaving.”

The Hidden Costs of “Getting Out”

At the peak of the violence, victims spent up to 7 hours per day mentally planning for safety and lost 9 hours of rest — leading to exhaustion, memory loss, and burnout. Even after separation:
• 89% reported worsened mental health
• 74% reported worsened physical health
• 63% ended up in debt
• 54% struggled to afford food and groceries
• 30% couldn’t access safe housing

A System Making Victims Work Harder for Safety
Victims described being disbelieved, blamed, and forced through exhausting bureaucratic hoops — often while parenting alone and recovering from trauma. On average:
• Victims interacted with five different services
• Spent 12 hours per month over 9 months seeking support
• Took 21 hours of contact before getting meaningful help

Only one in four said the violence stopped as a result of engaging with services. Support shouldn’t be another barrier — it should be the circuit breaker

Check out the New Zealand White Ribbon Day website below

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