Al Mu'min Charitable Trust ,Hands of the Needy & Elderly

Al Mu'min Charitable Trust ,Hands of the Needy & Elderly Building stronger and healthy families in South Auckland by providing a Halal Food bank for All families.

I am going to see something, don't associate yourself with it.
20/06/2026

I am going to see something, don't associate yourself with it.

20/06/2026

This is really insightful, thanks for sharing!

20/06/2026

Say it out loud Mr Jay Shetty

There exists a significant influence of virtuous individuals surrounding you; it is important not to take it for granted.

20/06/2026

Why does Islam permit a man to have more than one wife, but does not allow a woman to have more than one husband? (Q&A)

In Islam, this ruling is based on wisdom, responsibility, and social balance, not preference or inequality. The Qur’an allows a man to marry up to four women only under strict conditions of justice and fairness, as Allah says: “Marry women of your choice, two, three, or four—but if you fear you cannot be just, then only one” (Surah An-Nisā 4:3). This permission came in contexts like caring for widows, orphans, and vulnerable women, especially in times when women needed protection and support. It is not a free allowance, but a heavy responsibility, and many scholars emphasize that true justice between multiple wives is extremely difficult. On the other hand, a woman having multiple husbands would create serious issues in matters like lineage (nasab), inheritance, and family structure, which Islam strongly protects and keeps clear.

Islamic law aims to preserve clarity of family ties, stability of society, and rights of all members. A child’s lineage must be known without confusion, which is naturally maintained in a system where one husband is responsible for the family. Moreover, Islam places the financial and protective duty on the husband, making him accountable for his household. Therefore, the difference in ruling is not about superiority, but about roles, responsibilities, and safeguarding social order. When understood in its full context, this system reflects balance, justice, and wisdom in Islamic teachings.

O Allah, grant us understanding of Your wisdom, guide us to what is right, and bless our lives with justice, clarity, and peace. Ameen 🤲

And Allah knows best.

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20/06/2026

Loyal people take things personal because they would've never done that to you .

Loyal hearts are often hurt the deepest because they judge others by the standards they live by. What feels normal to some feels like betrayal to those who would never have done the same in return.

The psychological dynamic here is called projection. Truly loyal people naturally assume that everyone else operates with the same high ethical standards and emotional investment that they do. When that illusion is shattered, it causes a profound existential shock because it forces them to realize that reciprocity isn't guaranteed

I think one of the loneliest parts of this experience is that from the outside your life can look completely normal.You ...
20/06/2026

I think one of the loneliest parts of this experience is that from the outside your life can look completely normal.

You still go to work.
You still answer messages.
You still make dinner.

Meanwhile, inside, everything you thought you were is falling apart.

Have you ever gone through a period where nobody realised how much was collapsing inside you?

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There is a kind of collapse most people never see.

Not because it is small.
Because it is happening inside you.

It is not just heartbreak.
Not just stress.
Not just “a rough patch.”

It is the moment the life you were holding together stops making sense.

The identity you built.
The roles you played.
The beliefs that helped you survive.
The relationships you kept trying to fit yourself inside.
The version of you that knew how to function, cope, perform, please, endure.

And suddenly none of it fits.

What people often call a “hard time” is sometimes much deeper than that.

Sometimes it is an internal collapse.

A full unraveling.

A private kind of devastation where the old self is breaking apart, but the new self has not fully arrived yet.

And that space in between is brutal.

Because while something enormous is falling apart inside you, life keeps asking for normal things.

Emails.
Bills.
Appointments.
Conversations.
Groceries.
Small talk.
Work.
Smiling.
Replying.
Acting like your world has not quietly split open.

People see you still getting things done and assume you are coping.

They do not see what it costs.

They do not see the energy it takes just to get out of bed when your inner world feels unrecognizable.
They do not see the way your nervous system is straining to hold itself together.
They do not see that you are mourning not just what happened, but who you were before you saw it clearly.

That is the part people miss.

Sometimes you are not grieving one event.

You are grieving an entire version of your life.
An entire version of yourself.
The identity that got you here, but cannot come with you any further.

And there is no real ritual for that.

No funeral for the self you had to become to survive.
No socially acceptable language for saying, “Everything inside me is changing, and I am trying to stay functional while it does.”

So many people are walking around carrying this kind of invisible collapse.

Still showing up.
Still answering messages.
Still making dinner.
Still going to work.
Still saying “I’m fine” because the real answer feels too big, too messy, too hard to explain.

But surviving this kind of inner collapse is not weakness.

It is one of the hardest things a person can do.

To lose your old footing.
To feel your old identity cracking.
To realize the life you built cost too much of you.
And to keep going anyway.

That is not failure.

That is a form of strength most people will never fully understand unless they have lived it.

So if this is where you are right now - if you feel like your inner world has caved in, but you are still somehow expected to function - let this be a reminder:

Just because you are still standing does not mean this is easy.
Just because you are still functioning does not mean you are not in pain.
Just because other people cannot see the collapse does not mean it is not real.

Some seasons of life are not about “holding it together.”

They are about surviving the breaking apart long enough for something truer to begin.

And if that is what you are doing right now, I hope you know this:

You are not lazy.
You are not dramatic.
You are not failing.
You are carrying an invisible kind of grief.

And the fact that you are still here, still trying, still moving through it at all, is no small thing.

Exactly 💯
20/06/2026

Exactly 💯

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20/06/2026

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