Instructor Ikang Akpan

23/09/2024

11/02/2024

S*X IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP.

Indeed a very socially controversial subject. To arrive at a squared summary of this subject, there must be an accurate and a balanced definition of it. WHAT IS S*X and WHAT IS A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ? :

Actually, there exist a lot of ignorant, imposed or inherited distortions regarding virtually everything as far as the human family is concerned. These distorted perceptions and concepts were crafted by certain human beings for certain reasons at a certain time. Eventually however, because of how promising those crafted ideologies seems and also with the social influence controlled by some of its adherents, it has been spread far and have captivated many humans, encouraging them to be RELAXED.

These followers are hugely led by their emotions than by their reasoning. Whatever is essential for human beings would also be very clear to them despite who they individually are or where they come from; as long as they are naturally liable to use their thinking abilities.

* WHAT IS S*X ?
Just like hunger for food or being pressed of urine or f***s, s*x is one of the Essential Natural Impulses also in the nature of human beings, requiring gratification. It is a natural activity operated through the process of intimate pe*******on also called s*xual in*******se; between same or the opposite genders of human beings. The most formally accepted or official pattern of s*xual gratification is that carried out by the opposite genders of human beings - a male and a female. This however could be because it is only by that pattern that human beings can procreate.

Definitely, that natural ability is not possible in human beings only for the purpose of producing offsprings.

The pleasure in the act is also normal and different, with a special function to human beings. It is exactly as the Mouth which has two functions, that of Talking And Breathing. It is certainly not a coincidence but for a purpose.

*WHAT IS A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ?
A romantic relationship is the conscious union between two different persons of either the same or the opposite gender; - PROMISING MARRIAGE. Certainly such a union is specially established with equal awareness of eventual s*xual gratification.

However, regarding the Commencement Of The Practice in the union, it would be by the agreements setup by the persons involved. The practice can either strengthen or weaken the union depending on their individual motives and their shared agreements and also on their level of mental maturity as well as on their understanding of S*x As a Natural Activity.

Any natural activity that goes beyond the confinement of one person requires proper individual attention, respecting the other person involved.

S*x Must Not Be By Bully or By Accident but By Agreement And Consent of both persons involved. It should not solely be the core of such relationships.

S*x as a normal practice requires consideration, since it involves more than one person. IT IS VERY WISE NOT TO FORGET THAT RAISING OFFSPRINGS IS FUNDAMENTAL TO YOUR EXISTENCE; RECIPROCATE !!.

It is wise also not to forget that abilities and systems of every individual human being is different, therefore there exist potential unhealthy attractions through biologic contacts in the s*xual gratification process. Regarding that, the message is CAREFULNESS through Education.

S*x is naturally a Double-Endowed Stimulus. It has no natural prohibition but instructions; and in the human family also called the society, it is ONLY the ADULTS - as designated by the legal laws protecting human beings - that merits the trust of keeping those instructions aright. Because mishandling the act can be detrimental.

*** Know that every natural thing comes with a good and a bad-side, so whatever effect attracted from any natural activity depends on how it was used.

It Should Not Be Operated ILLICITLY, IGNORANTLY Or SELFISHLY; - neither S*x nor Romantic Relationship.

09/02/2024

One of the most controversial subjects ever !

'S*X IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP'. All necessary briefings you must know about it.

Drops Sunday 11/2/24.

04/02/2024

SMOKING And DRINKING. A General Information Covering these habits.

Normally in so many society, culture, tradition and religion, the habit is either fully accepted or prohibited. And within the confinements of those social segments, there are reasonable basis stated out for their adherents regarding whatever their view of Smoking and Drinking. And as long as the view seems protective and active for any adherent, he or she is expected to hold on to it as long as it does not cause misunderstanding, hatred or superficial judgment of the habit and its practicers - overall.

1. WHAT IS SMOKING And DRINKING ? :
It is worthy to note first that there is nothing totally artificial in life. This simply means that everything tagged "artificial" is actually natural things fabricated with the natural brain by a natural person in a humanly prescribed or perceived dimension different from that of nature. THERE IS NO INNOVATION DEVOID OF THE PRESENCE OF ANY NATURAL OBJECT. Artificial things proves the beauty and strength of the human brain. The Earth and Human Beings are in constant demand for artificial products.

Simply smoking and drinking are two different habits. They both have separate and combined practicers. But in many cases their combined practicers exceeds the separate practicers in quantity. It is the individual-habits of inhaling - through the mouth - a certain raw or a mixed natural substance through a pipe or a pipe-like wrapped-up tissue; by lighting it up with fire for the purpose best known to the practicer. And the drinking of a certain raw or a mixed natural liquid, for the purpose best known to the practicer.

2. THE GOOD AND BAD SIDE OF SMOKING AND DRINKING. :
Definitely, there is no natural product that is only meant for destruction. Every natural product have both the good and the bad side - Depending On How It Is Used.

Again, there certainly would be no smoker or drinker if the habit is totally useless. There certainly would be a reason why each person smokes or drinks. And there certainly also would be a reason why a person hates to smoke or drink.

For what has been popularly traced, smoking or drinking can bring a certain joyous feeling, modality or satisfaction to its partaker. These would really concern a partaker than a non-partaker. Again, smoking or drinking can damage a person's body system thus tagged by medical personnels as "harmful".

A person's hunger and feelings are very dear and absolutely important. Also a person's health is very dear and absolutely important. Therefore the reason for either dispositions hugely depend on the value placed on those two importance. But what can never be denied is that neither of the two is equal to life or death.

Whatever is equal to life will definitely safe it from totally running out and whatever is equal to death can never have any survivor. Meaning in reality that if abstaining from smoking and drinking safes life, all non-partakers will never have to die. And if engaging in the habit means death, no smoker or drinker can ever live on after engaging in the habit.

Non-smokers and non-drinkers are still subjects to unforeseen circumstances about their health and life. It is not by how careful one is but by how privileged one is. Therefore the ULTIMATE FATE of human beings encircles evey single human being.

Nevertheless, abstaining from smoking and drinking might improve a person's health and life. Again, it is scientifically proven that the body systems of human beings functions differently in each, and that whatever affects them biologically follows that direction. Smoking and Drinking might damage a person's health and life. Yet there exist no static result from either dispositions as both can die young or old.

3. A BALANCED VIEW OF SMOKING AND DRINKING. :
There is a popular saying that: "one man's food is another man's poison" and vice versa. The truth is that by education and engagements, any human being can improve or damage his or her life. Yet EVERY HUMAN LIFE is vulnerable to any possible unforeseen occurrences. Since neither engaging nor abstaining from the habit of solely means ultimate addition or subtraction of life, the habit therefore would reside in the hands of a person. ABUSE IS WRONG !!!

The biggest watch should rather be on the Reason for partaking or desisting from the habit. That is very personal.

Whatever habit handled irresponsibly, ignorantly or in illiteracy is bound to fireback badly.

There are so many RESPONSIBLE and MODERATE Smokers and Drinkers who have their personal reasons for engaging in the habit and have taken their time to consider and accept the full possible consequences before engaging in the habits.

By irresponsibility, even harmless consumable food or water can be harmful to health.

Irresponsibility and ignorance regarding any habit is HIGHLY WARNED. Smoking or Drinking is neither praised nor condemned. EVERY HABIT CAN BE CONTROLLED and LIMITED. So every artificial effect can be couped or harnessed.

Let every Society and its Segment in the world be clear and unbias. A balanced information is hard to pass because every organisation is after her interest and pride.

NO ONE SHOULD BE UNDERRATED, DISRESPECTED OR INSULTED FOR HIS OR HER CONSCIOUS AND EXTERNALLY-HARMLESS CHOICE.

03/02/2024

DO YOU SMOKE OR DRINK ?

HOW SHOULD YOU VIEW SMOKING AND DRINKING ?

HOW SHOULD YOU VIEW SMOKERS OR DRINKERS, NON-SMOKERS OR NON-DRINKERS ?

IS SMOKING OR DRINKING GOOD OR BAD( in addition to what you know already) ?

WHAT YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT THE ENTIRE HABITS.

A detailed, balanced and an unbiased article covering the entire subject is ready !!!

It shall be released this SUNDAY 4/2/24.

The subject matters a lot as most societally are guided by some one-sided principles and understanding about it.

It's societally friendly.

Be ready.