25/01/2025
Marriage!
I have been married to my husband for 14yrs now. We have four children together, all girls. I used to be sad about it but my husband has always assured me that he was okay with having only female children.
I started dating my husband when I was 18yrs old. This is to say I have spent over half of my years on Earth loving this man.
One of the policies I created for my marriage was that I will never check my husband's phone no matter what. My husband has never given me a reason to even check his phone. He always come home early and he is a very dedicated husband and father.
"Why create a problem where there is none?".
Our anniversary was on the 26th of October. He was away in Abuja for a business meeting but he promised to fly back home for the celebration that day.
With the help of my girls, I was able to organize a surprise dinner party. I invited some of his close friends and even his immediate younger sister was present.
It was getting late and my husband was still nowhere to be found. I tried his line severally but it was switched off.
Disappointed, the guests had to leave one by one. I cried my eyes out that day.
I didn't hear from him that night. My girls and I didn't close our eyes through out the night. That was so unlike my husband.
Around 8:30am the next day, my phone rang, it was my father in-law.
"Bisola, Andrew is admitted in St. Phillips general hospital, Ogun State. Please go there now".
"But He is in Abuja". I said without noticing that the line was already disconnected.
Like a mad woman, I quickly put one and two together and carried my children to my parents house who were as surprised as I was. From there, I made my way to Ogun State.
I got to the hospital and met my husband in a very critical condition. He was on life support. There were bruises all over his body. I thought it was an accident until the doctor told me my husband was stabb*d 15 times.
I started crying. I called my in-laws who told me they were al
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