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05/07/2026

Some were not brought down by weaknesses neither were they brought down by sin or what is wrong rather by what they love to do.

That was the case of Naboth. The only thing he did was to protect the heritage of his ancestors but the wicked queen who wanted to get the heritage for her husband got him killed. How do you think she achieved this? Please, follow me closely.

I believe she made a research about the kind of gathering he could be found in and decided to set him up. A public fast was declared and he was invited to the high table where he was lied against and then stoned to death. Naboth wasn't killed in a party or club but during an exercise which was sopposed to be for the betterment of the land.

What does this imply? It simply means that the enemy is good at using what an individual loves to bring him or her down.

Months back, a particular young man was killed and the information gathered was that he was killed because the price of his goods was far cheaper. He didn't die because he did something wrong, he died while trying to put food on his table.

This boils down to that fact that you can't scale through this life without God and the gift of discernment because that is the only way you can get to know and discern what is meant to destroy you.

The devil is roaming about seeking whom to devour, don't become another victim of his wickedness. Run into God and find a place in His secret place so that your life can be preserved.

Remember, sin will never let you have a place in God's secret place.

May you not be brought down by the enemy while trying to do life and fulfil purpose.

Thank you for reading,

I hope you learned something.

I am Deborah IyanuOluwa,

I preach Christ and inspire lives through story writing.

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22/06/2026

TO BE LIKE NORA by Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

Episode 14

Nimi's P.O.V

So, it's been six months since my husband returned home and it's been nothing short of goodness. These past six months has been interesting and sweet, sometimes, I pinch myself to be sure I am not dreaming because it feels so good to be true but then, I realised things are now better with us because we both have been worked on by God.

It isn't as if we don't disagree on certain issues but we have put up systems that helps us settle out differences amicably. Systems like communication, understanding, asking questions instead of assumptions and jumping into conclusion, not going to bed without resolving our differences and keeping the fire on our family altar burning.

The bond between Tade and Tolani is another beautiful thing I admire, the way the two love eachother is something that needs to be studied. And yes, I love how Tade teaches his daughter about God and the Bible. He breaks it down to her level and daily, I see a burning desire for God in Tolani. I see her becoming a mobile altar for God before her next birthday.

Yes, I have a news for Tade but I have been looking for the best way to break the news to him. We launched my boutique business some weeks ago and after that massive launch, I decided to break the news to him in a grand style.

Tade has become a sweet husband and father, and he deserved to be treated like a king. He has always been the sweet fellow but with God's pruning, he has become better.

So, we got to meet the Edwins, the one who helped linked Tade to the man who brought him to the top and gosh, Mrs Edwin is such a talkative. I thought I used to be a talkative until I met her and guess what! This woman almost ruined my surprise, it's obvious her discernment is very high. Just a look at me, she could tell I am pregnant. I had to cover her mouth with my palm to prevent Tade from hearing her so that my surprise won't be ruined. But then, I need to break the news of my pregnancy to him before someone else tells does.

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Tade's P.O.V

When Nimi came to stand before me rubbing her bare stomach, I knew something was up because my wife would not be up at 10 pm.

'So, darling, haven't you noticed something about me lately?' She asked leaving me confused.

'Something?' I asked after giving her a surprise look.

'Yes, take a closer look at me and tell me what you think is happening to my body.'

'Come on, babe. You know I'm not good at doing this. Tell me what the matter is. Are you sick?' I replied looking more confused.

'No nau, just take a look at me.' She did a 360 but that made me more confused then she began to rub her belly and something clicked.

'Tell me it's not what I am thinking.' I asked as I jumped up on my feet almost immediately.

'I don't know what you are thinking ohh.'

'Tell me, are we expecting a baby?'

'What do you think?'

'Nimi now, this suspense is killing me.'

'Okay, so, I noticed I missed my period and I decided to go to the hospital for a pregnancy test and the result shows I am pregnant?' Nimi breaks the news almost with a shout but she was careful not to wake Tolani who was already as asleep.

'You mean you are pregnant?' I asked while trying to process the information.

'Yes, I am and I am certain it would be a boy.'

'Another baby? Thank You, Jesus!' I screamed as I jumped up for some seconds

'We are going to be parents again. Gosh! I am so excited because this time around, we are doing this together.' Nimi exclaimed happily while I watch her with joy bubbling in my inside.

'Congratulations to us.' I screamed as I touched my wife's belly trying to feel my unborn baby.

'He will be called Samuel, the Lord said he would be a prophet sent to nations.'

'I love how much you've grown spiritually. Who would have believed that Nimi who I usually force to read her Bible and pray is now the mother who hears God concerning her children even before they are born.'

'There is no one God can't break, mould and use. Once a person comes to a place of surrender, God will do great things with him or her.'

'You are right, your level of wisdom surprises me.'

'I was once blinded by foolishness though. Nora is dead, her husband whom I was comparing you with succeeded in beating her to death.'

'Oh my God! That's pathetic.'

'I wept when our manager informed us. You know he tried to help her after I related what I saw to him but she claimed all I said was a lie that her life was perfect. She came to me later on and warned me to stay out of her affairs.'

'And Michael?' I asked wanting to know the end of the story.

'Currently behind bars, Nora's family took up the case and got him sentenced to life imprisonment.' Nimi's reply left me in deep thoughts.

'I'm speechless.'

'I have learned to always be grateful for and contented with whatever I have while trusting God for every other thing He has in store for me. I will never envy anyone again because I don't think I can survive their silent battles. Who would have imagined a beautiful and sweet woman like Nora would be going through such situation? Right now, I don't want to be like anyone. I JUST WANT TO BE ME!

I looked at my wife and realised she had become so emotional, I drew her into my arms encouraging her not to think about the past. Together, we will keep learning and getting better if not for anything but for our children and the lives attached to the success of our marriage.

Marriage will be sweet when both parties are ready to submit themselves to God for directions, trainings and prunings. And yes, we are ready to do whatever will make our marriage heaven on earth. We have decided to join hands with God to replicate godly homes on earth and we trust the Lord to give us all we need to make this happen.

WHAT ABOUT YOU?

THE END.

Thank you for reading to the end, I hope you learned something.

21/06/2026

In the middle of a discussion, someone said a woman ought to be more spiritual than the man.

I didn't agree with her because a man being the head and leader of the home ought to be spiritually strong. It isn't bad if a woman is more spiritual but the man shouldn't be spiritually cold. He should be able to know what God is saying concerning his family and discern when evil is coming near his home.

The role of a father is very important in a home, the father gives directions and identity to his wife and children. He leads and directs them into God's will and purposes for their live, and acts a covering over them.

The devil who knows how important the role of a father is in the family has staged an attack against our men that is why many are not functioning in their offices.

It breaks my heart when I see men who can't operate in their God-given offices. The devil keeps messing with the lives of many children because their fathers are no where to be found.

No man was created to be a beast, the devil came into their lives and changed the narrative.

Dear sister, if there is one thing you owe your children, it is the gift of godly father.

Today, being father's day, I decree that the mercy of the Lord will locate every man out there and make them head indeed.

Thank you for reading,

I hope you learned something.

I am Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

19/06/2026

TO BE LIKE NORA by Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

Episode 13

Nimi's P.O.V

We were rounding up cooking Jollof rice and plantain when Tolani walked into the kitchen. That little daughter of mine acted like I didn't exist and ran to her father asking him to carry her and the happiest father of the year didn't only carry her but went into the room, picked one of my wrappers and carried Tolani on his back. Tolani couldn't stop grinning and feeling on top of the world. She kept talking about she would tell her friends in school that her dad carried her on his back.

When it was time to eat, Tolani refused to eat with me as her custom was, I had no choice but to allow her eat with her father. Tade, didn't just let her eat with him, he practically fed her while pecking her chubby cheeks at intervals leaving me jealous. If Tolani wasn't my daughter, I would have been so jealous.

I pretended to be jealous and then stood up to take my food into the room hoping the two people will call me back but they didn't even notice me. No one told me to return to my seat and eat my food in peace. At that point, I began to beg God for a son because I was going to allow both father and daughter oppress me with this great love they had for each other.

One hour after we've eaten, Tade told us to dress up as he wanted to take us somewhere. Trust Tolani, she dressed up almost immediately with Tade helping her to look beautiful. Again, I was left to myself. When Tade couldn't stop complimenting her, I almost wanted to pinch him but I consoled myself with the fact that I looked more beautiful.

After a drive of two hours which was tiring, we arrived at a furniture company. Initially, I thought Tade wanted to replace the furniture in our home only for everyone we met to accord my husband the respect meant for a boss. As if that wasn't enough, a young lady walked up to him and began to give him some information. I had questions running through my mind but I decided to wait for him to tell me what I need to know.

While the young woman kept on talking, we all walked into a big room which looked like an office. Tade brought out a key from his pocket and opened the door leaving me in awe, still, I kept mute but I couldn't when we got in and I saw a large frame on the wall containing my picture. As if Tade knew I had a lot of questions for him, he stopped the young lady from speaking and introduced Tolani and I to the young lady who I realised is his secretary.

'Mercy, meet my wife and daughter. You've always asked about the woman whose picture I placed on the wall, here is she standing before you.' Tade introduced us to his secretary while I still remained in a state of awe. I realised that even though we were not together, Tade indeed carried me in his heart

'Wow! I'm so pleased to meet you ma'am. I've always asked about you but my boss here always ignore my question. I want to ask ma, is he a tough man at home?' Mercy asked me which made me to burst into laughter.

'Nice to meet you darling, we will talk about your question later. Meanwhile, thank you for dedication towards this company. God bless you.'

'Hi, aunty Mercy. My name is Tolani, nice to meet you.' Tolani introduced herself to Mercy when it looks Mercy didn't seems to acknowledge her presence.

'Ohh cutie, I was coming to say hello to you. Nice to meet you darling.'

'Mercy, please, take Tolani to Micker's bakery, get her ice cream and meat pie. Let her stay with you till I am done talking with her mom.' Tade instructed Mercy

'Alright sir, come with me, Tolani.' Mercy took hold of Tolani's hands and together, they walked out of Tade's office.

'It's obvious you have a lot going on in your mind. Spill it out babe.'

'I don't think I know this version of you. First, you promised me a sum of five million and now, you brought us into this large company and from the look of things, you seems to be the boss here. Please tell me all I need to know.' I poured my heart out to Tade. He led me to his seat while he sat on his table facing me.

'You are still very beautiful, Nimi. You've always been a beautiful girl.' Tade complimented my look but what I wanted was more than that even though his compliment made me blush.

'Thank you but can you please, give answer to my question?'

'Hmmmm, sure, I will.'

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Listening to Tade narrate his ordeal after he left the house made me emotional. Explaining the cause of so much fight and disagreement in our marriage before he left cause me to break down in tears. Of a truth, we were both immature and not ready for marriage because the things we fought over were unreasonable. Imagine me asking my husband to buy me a car worth millions when his monthly take home for six months couldn't even cover the cost.

I looked at Tade and realised he had been tearing up. I rose from my seat and drew him into my arms and allow him cry out every pain in his heart. Who says men are not babies? I let him cry on my shoulder as it was obvious he had been carrying a lot. I kissed away his tears and promised to be the wife and mother his life needs.

We walked to my frame which was behind his chair and I couldn't stop teasing and calling him a lover boy. For the first time, I saw my husband look genuinely happy and I was so glad that I had become that woman who could make her man happy.

To be continued.

18/06/2026

TO BE LIKE NORA by Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

Episode 12

Tade's P.O.V

I suddenly stopped descending the stairs the moment I came face to face with my daughter. With no reasonable doubt, she is indeed mine, she looks so much like me and I could feel the deep connection while I stare at her. I didn't know when I walked to her and scoop her into my hands. I had to put her down when I realised she was becoming uncomfortable.

'Mommy, who is this man?' My little girl asked her mom after I dropped her.

'Okay sweetie...' Nimi adjusted the collar of Tolani's dress while searching for the right answer to give our daughter. At that point, I felt bad for being away for that long, it was obvious I had to give my daughter time to warm up to me and that I was ready to do.

'Mummy, you aren't saying anything.' Tolani called out to her mother who was still trying to find the right words.

'So baby, what did I tell you about your daddy the day you asked if you have a father?

'You said my daddy travelled far away to make plenty money so that he would be able to make life comfortable for us.'

'Good, so, daddy is back and he loves you already. Remember I told you I have a surprise for you, daddy's return is the surprise. So, go into daddy's arms and enjoy the warmth of your father.'

'Daddy?' Tolani called out to me with tears running down her face. I walked up to her and pulled her into my arms only to realise I had been crying too. While in my arms, i began to remember the numerous dreams I had about playing with a little girl. I never knew God was telling me about my daughter and wanted me to go home to be a father to her. Right there, I promised God I would love, care for and protect this blessing he has given to me.

'Its okay baby, you don't need to cry.' I tried to pacify my crying princess.

'Daddy, please don't leave us again. Even though mommy has been acting like a a strong woman, I know she has been crying and praying for you to come back. Grandma and Grandpa has also been praying that God will bring you back home. Daddy, please don't leave us again.' Tolani pleaded with tears still dropping from her eyes. I looked at Nimi and saw her wiping away tears. My heart broke seeing the most important women in my life crying.

'Baby, I won't leave you and mommy again. I want you to know that you and mommy are so special to me and I will do everything possible to make you happy.'

'Last night, Grandma told me to ask God for a birthday gift and I told God to bring my daddy home. Grandma said God answers prayers, she is right.'

'Yes, my daughter. God answers prayers and I am promising you a beautiful and special birthday party.'

'Ohh, thank you so much daddy. I love you already.' Tolani fell into my arms again and I couldn't stop my tears from flowing while I rocked her hair.

Nimi who wanted us to have a father-daughter moment left us alone. I asked Tolani if she wanted me to get her something only for her to tell me that she wanted to remain in my arms. I smiled when I realised my daughter had been raised with love and now that I am in her life, I would spoil her with much love.

Tolani fell asleep in my arms, I carried her into her room and laid her on the bed. I kissed her forehead before stepping out of her bedroom only for her smile in her sleep, it was such a beautiful sight. I locked the door gently and went into the masters bedroom to meet my wife. She wiped her tears immediately she saw me coming but I had already seen it. I walked close to her with a strong desire to love, care for and protect my woman.

'What is my woman doing all alone in the room?'

'Where is Tolani?' Nimi asked dodging my question.

'In her room. She fell asleep in my arms so I took her to her room.' I replied as I took her by the hands and draw her closer to me.

'She is a sweet girl. My mom has been doing a lot on her.' Nimi said trying to avoid my gaze.

'Thank you for keeping and raising my daughter. She is such a sweet girl, all thanks to you. I promise to love, care for and always be there for both of you, I am back for good.' I saw tears escape from Nimi's eyes and this time around, she didn't bother to wipe or hide it, she simply let it flow.

'Please, don't leave us again.' Nimi pleaded in tears making me emotional.

Without giving her a response, I drew her closer and wiped her tears away. That moment, something happened to me, my love for her suddenly doubled. I kept speaking reassuring words to her until we found ourselves in a world of ecstasy.

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Nimi's P.O.V

I couldn't help but shed tears while listening to the conversation of both father and daughter. For years, I watched my daughter's grow without a father. There were times, I cried myself to sleep because I was the reason her father left the house.

Before she clocked four, I had little or no worry about her father being in her life. But after her fourth birthday, she began to ask questions as to why her friends had father and mother while she only has a mother. After unnecessary promises that her father would be back someday, I finally told her that daddy travelled far away to go make plenty money for us so that he would be able to make life comfortable for us. That helped a bit but it didn't stop her from asking after her father.

My heart broke the day she asked me if her father would be at her sixth birthday party. Her classmate's father had come to the school with a birthday cake and lots of presents for his daughter. She explained that her classmate couldn't stop telling everyone how much her father loves her. Tolani came home that day looking so sad and pleaded with me to place a call through to her father so that she could talk to him. I simply pulled her into my arms because there was no way I would have explained to her that I had no access to her father as he had changed his line.

When Tade walked in that day, I was so grateful to God especially for the fact that my daughter would no longer have to pay for my sin. She is innocent and shouldn't be denied the love and presence of her father because of her mother's mistake.

Watching her pout out her heart to her father got me teary and if I didn't leave the living room, I might end up breaking down in tears. I left for the room as Tade and Tolani needed time alone to bond.

The moment Tade walked into the room after putting our daughter to sleep, something stirred up in me and I suddenly found myself admiring him. Tade returned home looking handsome and polished, his skin glitters making me want to ask if he has a skin routine. Well, I didn't want to bombard him with questions as I believe he would tell me all I need to know at the right time.

As soon as Tade sat beside me and held my hands, there was a rush of emotion and I decided to flow with the tide. He wiped away my tears and we both went on a journey of love.

'Tolani said her birthday is in two weeks. Please, let me know what it would cost for her to have an unforgettable birthday celebration.' Tade whispered to my ears while we were still in each other's arms.

'She would be so happy.'

'I would be sending you the sum of five million naira later today. You have always wanted to have a business of your own so, send your resignation letter to your boss and let's get your business started.'

'Come on, how did you get such amount of money? Who are you?' I asked with surprise written all over me and all Tade could do was to wink at me.

'Let's go prepare lunch together, I want my daughter to eat something delicious when she wakes up and then, I can give your question an answer or better still, take you somewhere.'

To be continued...

14/06/2026

Someone made a statement, she said if she doesn't shout at her husband, he wouldn't do what he ought to do. Those words got me thinking.

The reason we lay great emphasis on getting married to a man who knows God and listen to Him is because of situations like this. Sending the Holy Spirit to a man when he doesn't want to listen or do what he ought to do is the right thing to do.

Shouting doesn't change a man but God can. There are women who have been shouting for years yet, they haven't seen the desired change.

I remember being offended by a male in my circle. I was so pained that if I had opened my mouth to speak a word, that relationship would have been destroyed. I simply reported the situation to the Holy Spirit and He told me not to say a word. The Holy Spirit even apologized on his behalf. One week later, the individual reached out to me and apologised. I was so surprised, that is what God can do.

But then, most times, our flesh gets into the way. We want to shout and make our feelings known. Since you have been shouting, as there been any change? For God to stand up for you, you must be ready to let go of your will.

If we can let God take over every situation in our homes, there would be no need for unnecessary fights and noise in our homes. Yes, there are times God would ask you to shut up and watch even when you are right, it will be so painful but He wants to achieve something that would definitely benefit you in the long run.

Do you have a spouse who seems to be difficult? Take the matter to God, He will tell you what to do and how to handle the situation.

If you surrender every matter to God and follow His leading, He will definitely fight for you.

Thank you for reading,

I am Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

I help restore peace and serenity to homes and help young ones discover God and purpose.

08/06/2026

TO BE LIKE NORA by Olowojesiku Deborah IyanuOluwa.

Episode 9

Tade called his secretary into his office to know if the issue of the business summit he would be attending had been sorted out. Mercy walked into her boss office with a journal in her arms.

'Good morning, sir. Trust you had a splendid weekend?' Mercy greeted as soon as she walked into Tade's office causing him to look away from his laptop which seats before him.

'Good morning, Mercy. Yes I did, thank you. What's up with the business summit at Calabar happening this weekend? Has everything been sorted?' Tade asked after returning his face to his laptop.

'The summit still holds this weekend and we have been able to get a slot for you but getting an hotel where you would lodge has been difficult.'

'Difficult? What happened to Royal Homes?' Tade asked this time paying total attention to what Mercy was saying.

'All their rooms have been fully booked. They explained that a church whose convention is happening this weekend booked them for one week. I tried to get you a room but everything has been booked.' Mercy explained hoping her boss who can be touchy sometimes would understand and not scold her.

'Hmmm, aren't there other hotels in that vicinity?' Tade asked instead of scolding Mercy.

'There is one but it doesn't look like a place you would want to pass the night. I realised that there is always a night party in the hotel, sir.'

'Hmmm but since that is the only option, please go for it, it's just one night I would be spending there.' Tade returned his gaze to his laptop and resumed what he was doing.

'Are you sure sir?' Mercy asked trying to ensure her boss really wanted to go for it.

'Yes, I am. Go ahead and book a room for me.' Tade replied with a tone of finality.

'Alright sir, it would be done before the end of today.'

FOUR DAYS LATER

The business summit was a success and Tade was grateful he didn't miss it for anything.

'The summit was indeed a blast.' Mercy commented while they both walk to the hotel her boss would be passing the night.

'Sure it was and I am glad we didn't miss it for anything. To think we almost missed it because of the issue of accommodation.'

'Yes sir but thank God, we were able to get it sorted.'

'Have you called your friend whose house you would be passing the night?' Tade asked wanting to be sure his secretary won't be stranded since they weren't able to get an accommodation for her because the hotel isn't a place where she would want to pass the night.

'Yes sir, she is expecting me already.'

'Great! Please, ensure you meet me here by 8 am tomorrow morning, you know we can't afford to miss our flight.'

'Yes sir.'

After a walk of about ten minutes, Mercy and Tade arrived at the hotel and helped Tade settle in. Mercy ordered dinner for Tade and ensured he had everything he would need for that evening before going over to her friend's place which was a drive of fifty minutes from the hotel her boss was lodged in.

After taking his dinner, Tade made up his mind to get enough rest that night instead of working into the night like he earlier planned. He went into the bathroom, had his shower, laid on the bed and slept off almost immediately.

Tade suddenly opened his eyes when he felt a hand running through his body. At first, he thought he was dreaming, he felt the constant thought of his wife was responsible for his dream about a woman touching his body. Another touch on his groin made him sit up almost immediately. He switched the light and was so shocked to see an half dressed lady beside him. He pinched himself to be sure he was seeing well only for the strange lady to strip herself naked and began to make advances at him. It took Tade a while before he could get a grip on himself.

'What you doing in my room, you strange woman? How did you get here because I remembered locking the door before going to sleep?'

'Well, in this prestigious hotel, we have a culture of taking care of our clients sexual need.' The strange lady replied seductively while she walks towards Tade. It was obvious she was ready for the business she came for.

'Well, I wasn't aware of that and please, I am not interested. Can you please get a grip on yourself and leave my room?'

'That's not possible, sir. I have been paid for this job and mere looking at your bare chest turned me on so, I can't leave without doing nothing.' She replied with a tone of finality leaving Tade with the option of asking God for mercy.

'If you don't leave, I will push you out.' Tade threatened her hoping she will reconsider and leave quietly.

'You can't push me out because I have the backing of the authoritiy. Can we get started with this so that I can go over to my next client?'

'I am not interested in this, please.'

Before Tade could say anything, the strange lady jumped on him and began to touch his sensitive parts. Despite the fact that he was trying to push her away, he realise that just a touch from the lady weakened him due to the fact that he had been celibate for five years.

When it seems the lady was slowly overpowering him, the story of Joseph suddenly flashed to his memory and strength came into his body. He pushed the lady off his body, grabbed her by the arm and pushed her out of his hotel room.

Not minding what the time says, Tade took his bath and checked out of the hotel immediately because he knew if he waited for the day to break, the lady would return and he might not be able to overpower her. Tade got into his car which was in the car park and decided to remain there until the day break.

But while in the car, he was restless, the lady's touch had wakened something in him and if care wasn't taken, he might ended up sleeping with a woman who isn't his wife. At that point, he was afraid of touching his secretary, he had to cry to God to take over his body as it was bent on putting him in trouble.

'Go back to you wife if you don't want to fall into the sin of adultery. Don't let your ego make you defile your marital bed.' The Holy Spirit spoke to Tade while he was pleading to God for help .

To be continued.

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