15/02/2026
Don't give up 🙏.
One day some day you will be Undetectable
Hello Dr. HIV, so sometime back in 2004, I was diagnosed with HIV😩. I was really hurt by this news and couldn't accept it. The worst part is that at the time I was tested, I was with some of my family members, as it was just a random testing I wasn't too prepared for.
With the extreme stigma my family had for HIV back then, I told them I would not take drugs and eventually everyone agreed, saying the test might have been wrong. So we left the hospital and went home. Time passed and everyone was praising me while blaming the people who tested me, saying this whole HIV thing is a demon. We were actually doing fine, eating well and the like; I stayed healthy.
But deep down, I was still thinking about it until about 6-7 years went by, when my health started deteriorating. No matter how well I ate, I started losing weight and getting frequent illnesses like diarrhea and flu that wouldn't resolve. Eventually, I knew this was now HIV, and I also remembered what the doctor said: "Once your CD4 drops, you'll come running for treatment, the choice is yours" 😂😩😩.
I sat down and made a bold decision before it was too late or before I developed a much more visible condition like TB or herpes zoster. I went to the hospital and requested to be tested. Ladies and gentlemen, it showed a very positive result 🥺🥺. I didn't even waste time; I enrolled in treatment. That's how my journey of being on "sweets" commenced.
But as for my family, guess what? I never told them I started treatment 😂. It's a thing I have kept to myself up to now. Now, what saddens me is that they use me as an example to say, "See, he was tested positive and he has never taken any treatment and he is very fine" 🥺🥺.
I can't open up; they will look down on me as they perceive HIV to be a dangerous disease for those who involve themselves in promiscuous behavior. But I am here to say that once you are diagnosed, don't wait for your CD4 to drop. Even if I delayed, I risked myself developing more severe diseases. Enroll fast on sweets and enjoy your life. I have been consistent and my viral load is undetectable. I have a son who is negative and my baby mama is negative.