Eliezer Project

31/05/2026

31/05/2026

Singles Summit. Be there.

14/05/2026

15 RULES OF COURTSHIP...

1. Don't go into it if you are not ready for marriage in the next 2 or 5 years max!

2. End all relationships with all your EX and focus on your fiance/fiancee. If you can't end all past relationships then leave your partner alone and marry all your EX. Ex means extinct. Let your relationships with them especially if it had been s*xual/romantic go into extinction!

3. Talk, talk, talk! Courtship is for talking. Talk out your differences, marital expectations, vision, dreams, goals.

4. Know their weaknesses, see if you can cope with them in marriage.

5. Ladies, learn how to submit to his leadership.

6. Guys, learn how to lead with love and by example.

7. No romance is allowed, you are not yet married.

8. No s£x, unless you are looking for serious trouble.

9. Don't do his house chores, you are not yet his wife. Don't empty all your bank account to please her, you are not her Automated Teller Machine (ATM).

10. Always pray and study the word together, they help you grow spiritually.

11. Be proud of each other. Flaunt each other shamelessly. Celebrate, admire, praise and prize each other above others. No pet names please, they will turn you on.

12. No meeting in the dark or behind closed doors.

13. No clubbing and partying.

14. Avoid all form of sin in your courtship.

15. Stay holy, pure and heaven bound.

May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele

05/05/2026

I LOVE YOUR BODY

Let's face it, s*x is part of a successful marriage. Romance is a daily tonic to a dry, frustrating, boring marriage.

Realistically, if you do not love your spouse' body, you won't find them s*xy. I've heard some destructive messages that tell singles that when you meet God's will, they won't be physically appealing to you, that's not true!

Marriage is more than physical appeal. Character and compatibility matter a lot but God won't be so wick£d to team you up with a man/woman whose physique you h@te!

Great people who enjoy several years of sweet, blissful, stress-free marriages married people they admire both physically and spiritually

Renowned success preacher, Pastor Sam Adeyemi said, "I made up my mind to marry a beautiful woman". He was not ready to commit adultery in marriage, so he got what he desired.

Most men and women of God in the Bible,who enjoyed long term blissful marriages married attractive spouses -from Abraham to Isaac, Jacob to Esther the queen among others.

Marry a man you find handsome; marry a woman you see as beautiful. Beauty is a personal thing. It is in the eye of the beholder. What someone else sees as disgusting may be something that turns you on. It doesn't take tons of money to look great, it takes cleanliness and creativity. That's all.

Yes, character and God's will matters most. You must marry someone you find attractive and appealing as well as having good character.

Please, do not deceive yourself into picking someone you find disgusting in the name of God's will. God will not give you someone you find disgusting and unappealing. Wisdom is profitable to direct!

In the name of Jesus! You will not mischoose!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele.

27/04/2026

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FIRST VISIT TO YOUR MOTHER IN-LAW TO BE

When you are meeting your fiance's mother the first time, should you buy her a gift? Lots of ladies ask me this question. We are presently discussing this at USAC. Some said they will, some said, they won't. Basically, it depends on the kind of family you are marrying into.

Ask your partner before embarking on the journey the traditions, philosophies and beliefs guiding the family before you visit, this will help you know what to do, expect and how to compose yourself. Don't just get excited, run out of control and look stupid before your future mother in-law.

I will not advise you to go with a gift on your first visit as some mothers see it as bribery or a sign of desperation. We know you are a giver and very generous, but wisdom should be applied when giving. You may give on the second or third visit. Ask your fiance what she likes. Some mothers will appreciate anything you give while some are very selective. You won't be happy if your precious gift is not appreciated after spending your hard earned money on it.

Guys can give on a first visit. It creates the impression they have the capacity to take care of their daughter. That's the way some families think, not all.

Don't forget to dress well when visiting please. Close your laps and stop spreading your pant before your father, mother, brothers and sisters in-law.

Only talk when necessary. Answer questions diplomatically. Don't run off the mill with your answers. Yes, you are an extrovert, loving and charming, this is your first visit, all eyes are on you. Behave yourself. Act maturely.

Ladies, take your plates to the kitchen after you have been served please. Don't wait for his mother to do that. Don't allow your fiance do that in the presence of his mother. Yes, he loves you and should show it but common sense should be applied when visiting your in-laws to be the first time.

Carrying the plate to the kitchen doesn't make you cheap or a slave. It shows basic home training, humility and service.

Greet according to your culture. Genuflect. Don't stand still like a NEPA pole. Kneel if you are Yoruba. Respect your mother in-law. Show courtesy to everyone. I will stop here because of time.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

Courtesy : Seun Oladele

27/04/2026

11 SERIOUS QUESTIONS YOU MUST ASK THAT LADY BEFORE YOU MARRY HER

Marriage is not a joke! Who you marry determines how your life eventually turns out. Your rising or crashing in life is determined the day you walk down the aisle with that woman so you can't afford to pick another man's bone. Here are the questions you must ask to see if your marital destiny is going towards the same direction.

1. WHAT IS HER VISION? Your wife must help you fulfil your vision that is why she is called an help-meet. If her dream is to become an international super n**e model while your dream is to become a local full time Pastor, you will to do well to end the relationship!

2. IS SHE REALLY BORN AGAIN? Forget about religion. I'm talking about Christ-like behavior, attitude and character. Some ladies can tie scarf 24/7 yet the poison in them is deadlier than the serpent's! If her character does not tally with that of a true child of God, you need to do a re-think!

3. IS SHE A VIRGIN OR NOT? You should find out to know what to expect on the wedding night and how to prepare for it.

4. DOES SHE HAVE AN EX? And what led to the break up so she won't repeat the same mistake in your relationship. If she still keeps a close relationship with her EX, she needs to choose between you and him. No rivalry is allowed in any relationship that will last.

5. HAS SHE BEEN S£XUALLY ABUS£D/RAPED? Abused women have complicated emotions and relationships. They suffer unexplainable mood swings, d£pression, paranoia and in extreme cases psychosis and neurosis. They seriously have anger and trust issues. You need to find out so you can know how to relate with her in marriage. Better still, she needs to go for therapy before marriage.

6. DOES SHE HAVE A CHILD IN HER PAST? You must accept her child as your own now that you are getting married to her. If you can't and she insists her child must live with her in marriage, you don't belong together. End the relationship!

7. WHAT DOES MARRIAGE MEAN TO HER? Real marriage means companionship, deep sharing and friendship. If all she wants to do is have s£x, cook and bear your children, she is not ready for marriage, both of you should go for counseling.

8. WHAT DOES SUBMISSION TO A HUSBAND MEANS TO HER? A wife must submit to her husband as the head in marriage. That is what the Holy Book says. If she is a f£minist and you h@te f£minism with passionate h@tred, you don't belong together, end the relationship!

9. DOES SHE BELIEVE IN WORKING AFTER MARRIAGE OR SHE WANTS TO BE A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE? Iron this out so you won't be shocked if she resigned from her job after her first pregnancy and refuse to do anything else aside cooking and bearing children.

10. WILL ANY OF HER FAMILY MEMBERS BE LIVING WITH YOU AFTER MARRIAGE? Talk. Find out if you can cope with her siblings or parents living with you immediately after wedding. If you honestly can't, talk about it!

11. WHAT IS HER VIEW ABOUT MONEY? Some women believe money is meant to be spent while some believe it is to be saved. A lot of others believe in accumulating liabilities. Though the right way to handle money is earn, save, invest and give. Spending should follow budget. What is your own way of handling money? Make sure your view on money tallies lest you end up in the divorce court few years after marriage.

These and more are the serious questions you should ask your partner before saying "I DO". Amos 3:3 is a proof of God's will.

If you claim you heard God and both of you are not ending the same direction, you need to pray again. God's will is not an excuse to walk in foolishness.

Yes, you must marry God's will for your life and your God's will must give you peace. If you are scared, troubled and your relationship is going no where to happen, end it before it ends you.

May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele.

17/04/2026

NO S*X PLEASE...

S*x to a man is more than physical pleasure. S*x is conquest, it is an achievement of a sort; it is the affirmation of manhood. This may sound st√pid and senseless to a woman but to a man it is not.

Withholding s*x from a man makes you mysterious and strangely attractive. A man likes to overcome a challenge and CONQUER.

Having s*x with you is conquering you. If he does so before marriage, he loses the passion to pursue and chase you further because you do not give him anymore challenge. If you pressure him and he continues with the relationship he does so with less enthusiasm and respect for you.

Delaying s*x till marriage has its numerous benefits. Apart from avoiding unwanted pregnancy and AIDS, you develop a very healthy self esteem. Your face glows with pride and you help your man develop SELF CONTROL.

Women who give men s*x in courtship do not know they are helping their men commit adultery in marriage. You have trained him to always get s*x improperly at the wrong time because you feel he cannot hold it so when you marry and are heavily pregnant or just deliver your baby please don't be angry if hubby runs after a mistress or caught making out with the maid.

The best place to be "conquered" is in marriage. Saving s*x till the wedding night makes the man sees you as a highly valuable jewel worth having. I'm not just referring to virgins. Even if you 've had a terrible past, abortions or a child out of wedlock. FORGET THE PAST and save s*x for the wedding night.

Let the man know the past was a mistake but now you know better. You are not going to CHEAPEN yourself before any man anymore. If he accepts it fine, if not he is free to go. You are not a s*xual machine. Any man who will marry you must accept your person not just your private part. You are not a s*x toy. You are a woman he needs to appreciate, love and value.

When you give your man s*x on the wedding night, he has "conquered" you and there is a look of pride in his eyes. That pride spread over to you and the result is a loving, trusting, peaceful and blissful marriage. You are happy that your man owns you completely and he is happy to be the one in charge of you. This is very crucial and basic in marriage. It is the foundation for trust, faithfulness and commitment for life.

Learn to control your s*xual urge and teach your man to control his as well. There is time for everything under the sun. God bless you. Cheers!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele

25/03/2026

KNOW YOURSELF THEN MARRY SOMEONE THAT FITS YOU.

Before you go searching for “the one,” take a moment to truly understand yourself.

Know your values.
Understand your habits.
Be honest about your strengths and your flaws.

Too often, people rush into relationships hoping someone else will complete them, fix them, or define them. But the truth is,no one can choose the right partner for you better than a version of you that is self-aware and grounded.

When you know who you are, you stop settling for what looks good on the outside and start choosing what truly aligns with your life, your peace, and your purpose.

Don’t just look for someone who fits your idea of a partner, become someone who knows exactly what kind of partnership they need.

The right person isn’t just about love… it’s about compatibility, growth, respect, and timing.

So before you say “I do” to someone else, make sure you’ve said “I understand myself” first.

04/03/2026

PLEASE, MARRY YOUR SPEC!

Whatever that means!

What I know is, marry someone attractive to you. I have always said this and will keep shouting it on the roof top! Marry someone you are attracted to, biko!

One guy told me he likes b***y women, pray to God to give you a b***y woman or you will lust after them if by mistake you marry a small breasted woman!

Everyone knows what they like in the opposite s*x!

Very light complexioned men are handsome, I'm never attracted to them. I don't find them comely for marriage! That is me ooo!!! Puuuleeeeaaaaze!!! You are good looking and great and there is a woman will fall in love with you.

I am not attracted to muscles! 6 pack something is not my thing! Every single guy that ever showed interest in me were never on the large size. They are either tall and slim or on the average but not large or muscular!
So when hubby showed up tall and slim, you get it? I am still admiring that guy till tomorrow. He has a new pet name. He is my fine boy for life!!!

Marry your spec!

Character, temperaments, values, beliefs matter a lot.

Their thinking pattern matters.

Verbal expression -important.

My hubby has always been intelligent. I can never cope with a man who lacks simple wisdom, basic intelligence and common sense! When my man opens his mouth, dear Lord God! Intelligent men exist but I have never met anyone as intelligent as my husband -none!

That guy's intelligence alone turns me on!!

Till forever, no man catches my attention like my husband. No man is as handsome as he is. No man is as intelligent TO ME as he is. No man is more attractive than him. He is my match. My spec!

Now, listen! To those who hide under God's will to marry someone they hate, you didn't hear God. God will not give you someone disgusting to you.

The person He gives you won't be perfect. They may not look like your spec but have the potential to be your spec whom you will love and admire for life!

With a little encouragement and brush up, you will see them glow with pride, become transformed before your very eyes and look super stunning in few years time.

Someone may be God's will and not look perfect but you must accept, admire, appreciate, respect, honor, celebrate and love them and be ready to work on them till they become your spec!

Some things won't change though. Like big breasts reducing to smaller size or being thin turning to fat. In that case, you need your two eyes and brain to do some simple mathematical calculation!
Marry your spec!
Your spec is in God's will!
You get it?
Be blessed!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele