17/01/2026
This idea of forcing equality with a man in marriage needs to be re-examined. A man and a woman are not the same in role, even if they are equal in value. By nature, the man is meant to lead, and leadership comes with responsibility.
If you believe a man is not “man enough,” the real decision was choosing him in the first place. Submission is not something you argue about daily; it is a choice you make before marriage.
Once you choose a man to be your husband, you also choose to respect his leadership. Marriage works best when roles are clear and accepted, not constantly contested.
- Omotola Jalade Ekeinde
