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Boyslivesmatter Foundation Boyslivesmatter foundation is an organization designed to create awareness on the s*xual abuse of th

24/12/2025

A message to all MEN!!!!!

I took my SON to police station myself 😭😭💪💪💪💪😂😂 My People Come and Hear What I Did Yesterday o!If I didn’t see myself wi...
10/12/2025

I took my SON to police station myself 😭😭💪💪💪💪

😂😂 My People Come and Hear What I Did Yesterday o!
If I didn’t see myself with my own eyes, I wouldn’t believe I’m capable of such!
You see this my second son, Vadim? That boy has been behaving like someone that swallowed remote control and pressed permanent stubborn mode.
I have talked, warned, preached, even poured small anointing water on his head. NOTHING entered! 😭🤣
But yesterday… yesterday was the day my spirit said “Enough is Enough. Activate Plan B.”
I came home tired—
The kind of tired that makes you question your life, your marriage, your village, your ancestors—
Only to meet Vadim doing the SAME thing I warned him about.
Na so I tell am calmly:

“Young man, dress up. Carry this extra shirt. Pick that bread and pure water. We are going to the police station.”
His eyes opened like fresh boiled egg.
“Mommy no now… you can’t do that to me.”
I said, “Try me. I have your placenta receipt.” 🤣🤣

I even called his father hoping he’d calm me down…
This man supported me with FULL CHEST!
He said, “Follow your mother. It’s just one or two nights. Only small mosquito will bite you. We will bring food.”
Ah! Perfect!

Immediately, tough boy turned to jelly.
He cried and crode.
Begged and beggedeth.
But me? I locked my emotions like Federal Secretariat. 🤣🤣
We reached the station, greeted officers.
I announced proudly, “I brought my son for discipline.”

Police people did not disgrace me — they ENTERED CHARACTER IMMEDIATELY!
One shouted,
“Bring him in! Let him cool off small inside.”
Omo! Vadim glued to my leg like super glue. Even the bike man was watching us like African Magic.

Inside, the policewoman asked what happened.
I explained my plan.
She said,
“Good. Hope you brought extra clothes. Small pap and water will reset his brain. Leave him for the night.”

Vadim: “MOMMYYY NOT EVEN ONE HOUR! I HAVE CHANGED!” 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
This boy began listing promises like a politician seeking second term:
✔️ I’ll do chores
✔️ I’ll read my books
✔️ I’ll greet elders
✔️ I’ll stop wasting food
✔️ I’ll behave like a gentleman
Even the officers were nodding like church elders. 🙌😂

Policewoman then gave me her number and said,
“If he misbehaves again, call me. We will come with patrol van.”
That was it.
That was Vadim’s salvation moment. 🤣🤣🤣
My people… when we reached home, this same boy collected my bag like he was my personal assistant.
This morning he woke up early, did chores without being told, greeting me like chairman of local government, asking what he can help me carry.

Transformation that SHOCKED me!
Police station ministry is effective 😭😂
From now on, any child that wants to stress me…
I know the address of the nearest police station.
😂

From pregnancy due group

CONSEQUENCES OF WHEN BOYS SRE EXPOSED TO S*X TOO EARLY1. Poor focus in school and declining academic performance.2. Earl...
05/12/2025

CONSEQUENCES OF WHEN BOYS SRE EXPOSED TO S*X TOO EARLY
1. Poor focus in school and declining academic performance.

2. Early addiction to s*xual stimulation that shapes unhealthy habits.

3. Increased risk of depression, anxiety, and emotional instability.

4. Confusion about identity, boundaries, and self-worth.

5. Higher chances of engaging in risky behavior with multiple partners.

6. Exposure to s*xually transmitted infections due to uninformed choices.

7. Distorted views of relationships, intimacy, and respect.

8. Reduced motivation for long-term goals because pleasure becomes a quick escape.

9. Vulnerability to exploitation, manipulation, and peer pressure.

10. Difficulty forming healthy relationships later because of early emotional damage.

FEMALE S*XUAL PREDATOR ON THE LOOSEWhy should a female teacher s*xually abuse a 16 year old boy. I hope you know it's s*...
05/12/2025

FEMALE S*XUAL PREDATOR ON THE LOOSE
Why should a female teacher s*xually abuse a 16 year old boy.
I hope you know it's s*xually abuse.

Why are you not covering his face and protecting his dignity?

What is excuse does the female teacher to s*xually abuse a 16 year old ,her student and the audacity to make a videos?

I hope you are aware that sharing that video is a crime.

Mostly importantly is how damaged that boy is.

When boys are exposed to s*x quite early, they imbibe the wrong mindset about ,women,s*x and love .

They lack self control and discipline over s*x.

Stop sharing the videos and cover his face.

*xulabuseofboys

Dotun is up against the American Embassy for conspiring with his ex-wife to leave Nigeria with his kids without his cons...
29/11/2025

Dotun is up against the American Embassy for conspiring with his ex-wife to leave Nigeria with his kids without his consent.
A father's love for his kids to stay present.

Men are not the cause of cervical cancer, read and gain clarity. .
29/11/2025

Men are not the cause of cervical cancer, read and gain clarity.
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CLEARED OF FALSE S*XUAL ALLEGATIONSometimes last year, a young man reached out to me, desperately insisting that he was ...
28/11/2025

CLEARED OF FALSE S*XUAL ALLEGATION
Sometimes last year, a young man reached out to me, desperately insisting that he was being wrongly accused of r**e. We took up the matter and investigated from our own end. It didn’t take long before we discovered that he was not a ra**st. Meanwhile, the police had already invited him because a report had been filed against him.

Through careful questioning and verification, we were able to expose the holes in the so-called allegations. The complainant unknown to many had a history of falsely accusing young men. Thankfully, there were clear pieces of evidence and video recordings that proved beyond doubt thatd this young man was innocent.

Yesterday, he sent me a heartfelt message, thanking me for believing in him and giving him what he called “a lifeline.”

And truly, like I told him, I hate false accusations just as much as I hate r**e itself. The weaponisation of r**e allegations hurts all of us—especially those of us who fight daily for the rights of women and children. It weakens our work because it makes it harder for real victims to be believed. Too often, society assumes that every victim is lying, and that is a tragedy we must continue to confront.

Every false accusation is a setback in the struggle. But every truth we uncover is a step closer to justice—for survivors and for the wrongly accused.
By Toyin Ndidi Taiwo

A quarter of a century after 10-year-old Damilola Taylor was killed, his family, friends, campaigners and community lead...
27/11/2025

A quarter of a century after 10-year-old Damilola Taylor was killed, his family, friends, campaigners and community leaders will gather in central London to honour his memory and confront the continuing impact of youth violence.

Expected to be in attendance are the London Mayor Sir Sadiq Khan and Met Police Commissioner Sir Mark Rowley, who will join the Taylor family to mark a life cut short and reflect on the legacy of Damilola’s death.

Twenty-five years ago, on 27 November 2000, Damilola was walking home from Peckham Library after a day at school. Moments later, he was stabbed in the leg with a broken bottle. He staggered to a stairwell on the North Peckham Estate, where he collapsed and died.

His death gripped the country. Damilola’s bright smile and his dream of becoming a doctor to “save the world” became symbolic of the lost potential of so many young victims of violence.

In what became one of the United Kingdom’s most high-profile killings, two brothers – who were 12 and 13 years old at the time of the killing – were convicted of manslaughter in 2006.

However, the Taylor family since turned their pain into a purpose. Months after Damilola’s death, his father Richard Taylor established the Damilola Taylor Trust. The aim was simple but ambitious: to support disadvantaged young people and provide opportunities that might keep them safe and inspired. Over the past 25 years, the trust has run mentoring schemes for young people in London’s most deprived communities -Source: BBC

So, there’s this couple that just moved abroad in January.They enrolled their 12-year-old son in school—normal, nothing ...
24/11/2025

So, there’s this couple that just moved abroad in January.

They enrolled their 12-year-old son in school—normal, nothing unusual.
The boy made a new friend. Fine. No problem.

Then one day… this boy came home with a PS5.
A whole PS5.

His parents were like, “Come here! Who bought this thing for you?”
And he said, “My friend in school.”
Just like that.

They called the friend’s parents, and the parents said, “Oh yes, our son really likes your son. He wanted to gift it to him, so we bought it.”

But you know that feeling when someone is talking, but your spirit isn’t settling?
Still, they said “okay” and moved on.

A few days later, their son went to his dad and asked:

“Daddy, what is boy-and-boy relationship?”

The father replied, “Like friendship now… me and Uncle so-and-so.”

But the boy said:

“No, he said he has feelings for me.”

That was when the father’s brain reset.

Turns out, the boy who bought the PS5 told their son he wanted them to be in a romantic relationship.
Two 12-year-old boys.

The father rushed to call the mother: “Come and hear what your son is saying o!”

They sat him down and told him:
“When you get to school tomorrow, just tell him NO. Simple.”

The boy obeyed.

But the friend got upset and said, “It’s your parents that told you to say no, right?”

Small small wahala started.

Then one day, their son was playing the PS5, too long, and the father got frustrated and shouted:

“I’ve told you to pack this thing!
If I come back and you haven’t turned it off, I’ll smack you!”

Just normal African frustration—not abuse.
But unfortunately, the other boy was connected through the PS5 microphone… and heard everything.

Worse—he recorded it.

On Monday, he told their son he would help him “get his PS5 back.”
He took the recording straight to the headteacher and said:

“I think my friend is being abused at home.”

He played the recording as “proof.”

The school called the parents.
Then questioned the boy.
And the boy said:

“I’m not being abused o. I just want my PS5 back.”

But once a child raises a safeguarding concern in the UK—especially with a recording—
Social services must step in.

And that’s how this innocent couple, who just moved to the UK to start a new life, suddenly found themselves under investigation.

Thank God the truth came out.
Thank God nothing serious happened.
But the woman is still confused… still shaken…
She doesn’t even know what to think next.

Credit to Chinenye Happiness

LAGOS DSVA IN PARTNERSHIP WITH HEARMAN INITIATIVE COMMEMORATES INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY 2025 WITH RALLY AND PUBLIC LECTUR...
24/11/2025

LAGOS DSVA IN PARTNERSHIP WITH HEARMAN INITIATIVE COMMEMORATES INTERNATIONAL MEN'S DAY 2025 WITH RALLY AND PUBLIC LECTURE

The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA), in partnership with the Hearman Initiative, successfully commemorated International Men's Day 2025 with the theme "Navigating Pressure: A man's well-being in modern Lagos" on Wednesday, November 19, 2025, at the University of Lagos (UNILAG).

The event featured a vibrant rally within the university campus, where participants, notably men in blue shirts, expressed their enthusiasm while distributing fliers, and a public lecture held at Professor Adetokunbo Sofoluwe Park, focusing on celebrating men's positive contributions to society and addressing their well-being.

Representing the Executive Secretary of Lagos State DSVA, Mr. Ikudayisi Oluwatobi delivered a keynote address during the public lecture, highlighting the significant impact fathers have on families, social institutions, and the broader society. He challenged socio-cultural myths of hegemonic masculinity, urging men to embrace responsible, empathetic leadership and to speak out against any form of abuse they experience. Mr. Oluwatobi also addressed the misconception that Lagos State DSVA is biased toward women, emphasizing the Agency's commitment to supporting all survivors of Sexual and Gender-Based Violence (SGBV), regardless of gender.

He concluded with a powerful charge for men to prioritize their mental and emotional well-being amidst the pressures of modern Lagos and to join forces in combating SGBV in the state. Additionally, he encouraged participants to take proactive steps by speaking up, intervening safely, and supporting survivors through prompt reports to the Agency’s 24-hour toll-free hotline: 0800-033-3333.

The event, which started at 10AM, included a rally, public lecture, and other engaging activities, fostering a dialogue on redefining masculinity and promoting collective well-being. With over 120 participants in attendance, the engagement strengthened community knowledge and reaffirmed the communal commitment to promoting safety, accountability, and zero tolerance for all forms of violence.

The Lagos State Government

When I was 8, my older brother r**ed me. And my parents refuse to take sides. The abuse went on for about a year. I u...
13/11/2025

When I was 8, my older brother r**ed me. And my parents refuse to take sides.
The abuse went on for about a year. I used to have "sleepovers" in his room every weekend. It started as horse-playing, like normal brothers would do, and then it became more. I lacked the knowledge and experience. I didn’t know it was inappropriate, let alone with a family member. So, I went along with it all voluntarily until I didn't. When he requested I put my mouth on his privates, I initially said no. But he pressured me multiple times, even putting his mouth on me, and I eventually gave in. After a couple weekends of this, he wanted to s3x with me. He threatened to hit me if I wouldn't. I said I was going to tell our parents, which we both agreed to keep it a secret from anyone, and he hit me hard in the head. Then he spit in his hand, and he r**ed me. It was incredibly painful, but I kept as silent as I could. I’m not sure how long it went on for that night, but I remember seeing a different hour on the digital clock in the room. This became a weekly occurrence. A year later, he ceased having any s*xual contact with me. He showed no desire, or interest in me. I didn't know what to think or how to feel. I was both relieved and disappointed at the same time, as well as emotionally hurt.
I felt rejected and thrown out. Sad and angry, at both him and myself. Wondering what I did wrong. I pretended to get along with my brother to the point where it became somewhat genuine, and we never spoke about or alluded to the abuse in any way, to this day. In my 20's, I broke down completely and cried for two hours. I told my father, and he ceased contact with me for several months. He still refuses to talk about it, saying that the thought of it is "repulsive" to him. My mother tried her best to comfort me, while asking questions like "Why didn't I tell anyone?" She remains to be the most supportive person, despite not fully understanding the depth of it. Both of them refuse to "take sides" between my brother and I. I told several thera**sts and friends, and was met with mixed reactions. I still struggle with it all. The thought of it. The night terrors. The flashbacks. The anger and hatred. The shame of it all. I have attempted su***de multiple times. I go to weekly therapy, and take many different prescription pills to be able to function on a basic level because of it. Please, tell somebody, anybody, if you are going through something like this on any degree, current or not. I feel isolated and alone. Not with the nature of what I went through, but with the process of recovering. I’m not okay, and I will likely suffer from it for the rest of my life. I wish I had told someone sooner.

You can help a child protect themselves from abusers, by gifting them a FREE Tell Somebody book! 📚 gofundme.com/GiveAFreeBook

Child abusers, please stop and seek therapy and God.
Parents, talk with and believe your children. ❤️
Survivors, seek therapy. 💪🏽
(To share your story of abuse, message me)
www.TellSomebodyToday.com

Big Brother Naija Season 10 housemates, Otega and Kayikunmi, have been evicted from the reality show.The duo were evicte...
18/08/2025

Big Brother Naija Season 10 housemates, Otega and Kayikunmi, have been evicted from the reality show.

The duo were evicted during the live eviction show on Sunday.

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