Akinbode Aderonke Mary -SPA

29/11/2025

No matter how far you have gone, you can still make a U-turn.
Jesus loves you.

24/11/2025

My daughter offended me one day, I beat her and told her to stay away from me.

After 10 mins, she stood up where she sat and was coming close to me.As I heard her footsteps, I wanted to scream go back and the holy spirit restrained me.
The holy Spirit asked me to embrace and pet her.
That decision was not easy because I wanted to sleep but I had to.

Even in your day today activities, God want to intervene
God wants to tell you where not to go and where to go
God is interested in that relationship
God wants to interfere with your dressing
God is interested even in your conversation with people.

Be sensitive to hear God even in the storm.

*xualpurutyadvocate

13/11/2025

N**E PICTURE PALAVA

I wrote something about n**e picture 3 to 4 years ago.
I post that article every year or every 6 months for those that care to read and make use of it.

It saddens my heart seeing news flying around about a guy that threatens a lady that he will release her n**e picture. The guy opened a whatsapp group, and sent the pictures one after the other.. Who does that?

Some men are devil incarnate. I don't think no sane man will do that😥

How will a man you are not married to ask you for your n**e picture and you will gladly send it? What is his motive for requesting for your n**e picture?

N**e pictures are being used nowadays to blackmail and to ma******te.
If you allow your pictures to go out to any man, just be rest assured that any of the two will be used with it.
When a man use your picture to ma******te it means you are also partaker of his sin because ma********on is a sin.

If you allow any man to blackmail you with n**e pictures it means shame, depression and su***de is knocking at your door. Also, many people will see it and they might also use it to ma******te..

Do you see the reason why you shouldn't allow any man to force you or cajole you to send n**e picture to him

Sending n**e picture to a man, s*x phone and anything related to these is a sin.. A man that said no s*x till marriage but he will need your n**e picture is not a good man and not a right man for you. Releasing your n**e even if you don't have s*x is the same thing as having se.xual in*******se.

No sane man, no san.e man will request that from you.

You have to be vigilant sisters, some brothers will be all over you just to ruin you. Be sensitive, be smart and learn to say no to ungodly relationships this year.

Your body is the temple of God and any unclean thing is not allowed to enter if you see it as such..

If a brother is asking you what you are wearing to sleep please ignore.

If a brother tells you no s*x till marriage but is requesting for your n**e please ignore. He should get self control instead of your n**e.
If a brother is pressing you to know if you face down or up while sleeping please ignore, he is asking the colour of your un**es please press ignore button.

If a brother is always calling you with video call at an ungodly hour please don't pick his call. Why will he do such? Some have hidden agenda.

If a brother ask you to visit him and sleep over in his house please don't.. Nobody should have direct and indirect access to your body till when you are married.

If you need to visit any brother please go with someone if you are not sure of his spiritual life or if he has self control.

For those in courtship and about to marry probably you have done introduction.

Introduction is not wedding.
Separation can still happen after introduction.
You are not yet married not until when your bride price is being paid.

Understand your body system and understand his own too.

Don't discuss S.ex matter until 2 weeks to your wedding (hope you see this).

Don't allow him to your s*xual compatibility before the wedding. If he wants to know if you are compatible s*xual please both of you should go to the hospital.

It is an insult unto your parents and God if you move to your fiance's house after introduction.

And to the married ones that are away from their partners
Many of them are on this table, sending n**es to their husbands or spouses vice versa.

Who knows who will check the phone after you might have sent it and it will leak...This is one of my fears, your husband might not have any bad intention but do you know who will have access to the phone especially if you have a free spouse..

We need to know who we are in Christ.
If you are not born again please you need it so that you can know your worth.

If you don't know that you are priceless I am telling you today....

If you fall victim many lives will be affected
Your parents will be disappointed, siblings, friends and even God.

Stay away from any ungodly relationships and set a godly standard for yourself..

*xualpurutyadvocate

08/11/2025

If you lack self control, it will be difficult to be s*xually pure.
It is one of the fruits of the Spirit.
Strive to get it

07/11/2025

07/11/2025

Fornication Starts With “Touch-Touch”
Stop Playing With Fire

Nobody wakes up and suddenly falls into s*xual sin.
It starts slowly, quietly, and softly.

A hand on your shoulder…
then your lower back…
then the “I’m just helping you adjust your hair” touch😏

All those touches that send fire down your marrow.
and suddenly your spirit is screaming while your flesh is smiling.

This generation says, “Relax, it’s just touching.”
Heaven says, “Stop it you know where that road ends.”

Understand this:
Lust doesn't always show up with heavy breathing and dim lights.
Sometimes it starts with laughter…
hands brushing “by mistake”…
and a voice that says, “Don’t worry, I can handle it.”

Nobody “handles it.”
That’s why Scripture handled it for you ahead of time:

“It is good for a man not to touch a woman.” 1 Corinthians 7:1

Why? Because touch wakes appetites.
And appetite doesn’t obey common sense, only boundaries.

Stop calling it “chemistry.”
It’s temptation dressed in perfume.

Stop saying, “He’s a good guy.”
Good guys fall. Good girls fall.
Holiness is not gender-based it’s principle-based.

Listen, if your heart rate increased and you suddenly forgot memory verse
that touch was not “innocent.”

If the moment you got home you started rebuking imaginary spirits
it wasn’t prayer you needed, it was distance.

If you have to fast every weekend because of someone touching you during the week…
my dear, it’s not fasting, it's unnecessary warfare.

Your destiny is too expensive to be lost in someone’s palms.

Boundaries are not proof of weakness they are proof of value.

People protect what they treasure.

Your body is a temple not a public testing ground for “we’re just close.”
Tell that young man to stop touching you.

A holy relationship is not led by hormones but
it is led by discipline and the Holy Spirit.

If they truly love you, they will protect your purity,
not stretch your self-control like rubber.

God didn’t tell you to “manage temptation”
He said flee.
Even Joseph ran.
Who are you to stand and negotiate?

You don’t fight lust by being strong you fight by being wise.

Your purity is your crown, don’t let anyone bend it crooked.

Touching is not “cute.”
It’s not “bonding.”
It’s not “chemistry.”

It’s the door to destruction.

Close it. Lock it. Guard it.

Your future spouse will thank you.
Your spirit will stay sharp.
Your destiny will stay fragrant.

And heaven will applaud your discipline.

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*xualpurutyadvocate

04/11/2025

Celebrating my 3rd year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉