23/11/2025
15 Reasons to Date a Married Man From Today - By Bisi adewale
Yes, you saw right! Fifteen reasons to date a married man. But this isn’t the encouragement you think it is. This is the raw truth, the bitter pill. Once you read these “reasons,” you’ll understand why you must never give yourself to another woman’s husband, no matter how sweet his lies sound.
1. Because you enjoy being second best
A married man already has a queen in his house. You will always come second, third, or even last on his list. When his wife calls, you get dropped. When his children need him, you become invisible. Do you really want to live as somebody’s “backup plan” for life?
2. Because you like hiding in shame
You’ll never walk in the open with him. No public dates. No official pictures. No introductions to family. You’ll always be hidden like contraband, sneaking in through back doors, leaving before dawn, and living in secrecy. If you love darkness more than light, this is the life for you.
3. Because you don’t mind being used and dumped
A married man is not with you because he loves you. He’s with you because you satisfy his lust. You’re not his priority, you’re his playground. And the day he’s tired, or the risk gets too high, he’ll dump you without a second thought.
4. Because you’re comfortable destroying another woman’s peace
Every time you entertain a married man, you’re helping to tear another woman’s heart apart. You become the reason she cries herself to sleep, the reason her marriage shakes, the reason her children suffer. If you can live with that blood on your hands, then carry on.
5. Because you want curses on your head
God Himself said in Hebrews 13:4: “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” Dating a married man is not just “fun.” It is adultery. And it attracts God’s judgment. Do you want curses following your life and family?
6. Because you love wasting your youth
A married man will never leave his wife for you. You’ll waste your precious years waiting for him, missing opportunities to meet your own husband, and by the time you realize it, you’ll be older, bitter, and regretful.
7. Because you enjoy being disrespected
Deep down, he doesn’t respect you. He knows you’re willing to be a side option. He may flatter you with words, but in his heart, he sees you as cheap. Respect is the foundation of true love, and you’ll never get it from him.
8. Because you love competition that you can never win
You will always be in competition, with his wife, his children, and his responsibilities. And no matter what he tells you in the heat of passion, you will always lose. Family always comes before a mistress.
9. Because you want to block your own marriage
Why should God give you your own husband when you are busy destroying another woman’s? If you sow infidelity, don’t expect to reap fidelity. You are closing the door to your own home by breaking another woman’s.
10. Because you love carrying shame in silence
Imagine seeing him walk with his wife in public and you can’t say a word. Imagine holidays when he’s with his family while you’re alone. Imagine being pregnant for him and he forces you to abort because he doesn’t want his wife to find out. Shame will follow you everywhere.
11. Because you want to destroy your children’s future before they are born
If you build your life on adultery, what kind of foundation will your children stand on? Tomorrow, when they discover that you were once a side chick, how will you look them in the eye? Do you want them to inherit the shame and curses of your choices?
12. Because you like men who lie
A married man is a trained liar. He lies to his wife to get to you. He lies to you to keep you. He lies to both of you to protect himself. If you date a married man, you are dating lies wrapped in human skin.
13. Because you enjoy being disposable
You are not his investment; you are his entertainment. He can throw you away at any time. The moment he senses danger or gets tired, you are gone. No commitment, no security, no loyalty. Just disposal.
14. Because you don’t care about your destiny
Your destiny is too precious to waste on secret relationships. God has a man designed for you, someone who will love you openly and build with you. But if you keep sharing yourself with another woman’s husband, you may miss God’s best for your life.
15. Because you don’t value yourself
At the root of it all, dating a married man says something about how much you value yourself. You are saying, “I don’t deserve real love. I don’t deserve loyalty. I don’t deserve my own man.” That is a lie from the pit of hell. You are worth so much more!
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The Final Word
Young lady, don’t destroy your future for stolen kisses and secret meetings. Don’t waste your youth being someone’s second option. Don’t trade your destiny for temporary attention. Dont bring curses upon yourself by sleeping with n other Woman’s Husband.
You are worth being loved in the open.�You are worth being cherished as a wife, not used as a mistress.�You are worth honor, dignity, and a man who is yours alone.
Stay pure. Stay strong. Stay valuable. Never date a married man.
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