17/03/2026
A woman with her own means is a woman with a choice.
That line came from a woman in Kuchingoro, Abuja. Not from a policy brief. Not from a theory of change document. From a woman sitting in a circle with her neighbours, speaking honestly about her life.
DO Take Action, in partnership with Shield Them, Abiathar Etiko Foundation, BENE ANI Maduka Foundation, and ANSAR Women Development, facilitated a Focus Group Discussion at the Women Centre in Kuchingoro, part of our ongoing community-level work on Gender-Based Violence, the VAPP Act, and harmful practices including FGM.
Three themes emerged from our analysis of the discussion:
The awareness gap is real. Physical violence is recognised. Emotional abuse largely is not and that gap has direct consequences for how survivors understand and name their own experiences.
Silence is structural, not personal. Women are not staying because they are passive. They are staying because they are financially dependent, socially isolated, and culturally pressured to endure. This is a systems problem, not a mindset problem.
Legal protection without access is protection in name only. Awareness of the VAPP Act remains critically low. A law that women don't know exists cannot protect them.
The through-line across all three? Economic power.
When women have financial independence, they have options. That means sensitisation and livelihood support are not separate workstreams , they are the same intervention.
We are taking these findings back to our programming. If you work in GBV prevention, women's economic empowerment, or community-based programming in Nigeria, we'd welcome the conversation. Findings are available in summary form for vetted partners and collaborators.
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