01/08/2026
AUGUST: I'll be teaching on: Practical Meaning and Practical Understanding: Seeing What Isn’t There to Know What Is!!!
I once heard a line in _Legend of the Seeker_ from the wizard Zedd that stuck with me: _“Sometimes to see what’s not there, gaze upon that which is.”_
That flipped a switch in my head. And I made up my own version: _Sometimes to understand the meaning of something, find out what it doesn’t mean._
I always say this, that I read meaning to the very I or is you use while talking to me, about me or anything connected to me. Too many of us learn a new word, saying, or phrase from school, people, groups, or professors and stop there. We memorize the dictionary definition but never learn _how, where, or when to use it — and who to use it on. We miss the practical meaning: the real-world weight a word carries. That practical meaning is what imparts credibility, integrity, and reputation to something or someone. Without it, language becomes a weapon we swing blindly.
I teach from experience. I teach from practical meaning and practical understanding of what something is_ and what it isn’t_. Because the gap between those two is where reputations live or die.
Case Study: The Word “Spamming”
I once saw someone comment “Stop spamming” under/after a post. The person had shared a deal once in two different groups. Not twice in the same_ group — once in each.
There were no group rules against posting the same thing in both. The audiences weren’t even identical. And even if they were, posting once in a second group is _re-emphasis_, not harassment. It’s _reach_.
But that one word — _spamming_ — practically attacked the credibility and genuineness of that post. It painted the poster as unwanted, untrustworthy, harmful. That’s the power of practical meaning. The dictionary says “spam” is unsolicited bulk messaging. But in practice, calling someone a spammer tells the world: _“This person is a threat. Don’t trust them.”_
So let’s get practical. What _is_ spamming, and what _isn’t_?
When it IS Spamming: The Practical Reality
Spamming isn’t just “posting a lot.” Practically, it means your message is perceived as coming from an *unwanted source*, with *low credibility*, and *high risk*. It feels *harmful, full of threats, irrelevant*, and triggers the audience’s scam radar.
Here’s what it looks like in practice:
1. Same group, multiple times: Posting the exact same deal 3x in one day in one WhatsApp group. You’re not reaching new people. You’re badgering the same ones. _Practical meaning_: “I don’t respect your time.”
2. Irrelevant groups: Dropping a funding deal in a “Port Harcourt Foodies” group. The context mismatch screams “I didn’t even read the room.” _Practical meaning_: “I see you as a number, not a person.”
3. No value, just link-dumping: “Invest here 👉 http://bit.ly/xyz” with zero context, no intro, no _why_. _Practical meaning_: “I’m hiding something. Click and find out — if you dare.”
4. Bot behavior: Copy-paste replies under 20 posts in 5 minutes. No human tone. _Practical meaning_: “No real person stands behind this.”
5. Ignoring ‘No’: You were told to stop. You post again. _Practical meaning_: “Your boundaries mean nothing to me.”
6. Bait-and-switch: “Free iPhone” post that leads to a crypto deposit page. _Practical meaning_: “I win if you lose.”
In practice, spam feels like someone kicked down your door to sell you a watch. Even if the watch is real, the method kills the trust.
When it’s NOT Spamming: Practical Understanding
1. Different groups, different audiences — or same audience, once each:
Group 1/2: “Investors or VCs Group”
Group 3/4: “Stakeholders Network” or Investments
Same post, but 2 totally separate sets of people. Or even overlapping people, but you posted _once_ per group. That’s not spam. That’s _re-emphasis_. You’re not sure everyone saw it the first time.
2. Once per group, with context: You tailored the intro line for each group. For investors/VCs, you lead with ROI. For founders, you lead with deal structure. _Practical meaning_: “I respect this community enough to speak its language.”
3. Relevant: The deal actually helps that group. Posting property deals in a real estate linvestors group isn’t spam. It’s why the group exists.
Think of it like this: A billboard in Port Harcourt + a billboard in Lagos isn’t spam. It’s reach. Or a billboard on Aba Road and the same billboard on Ikwerre Road — it’s reach.
Your attention may not have been drawn to the first post in the other group because you didn’t bother to read. But the second one gave you detailed information because you _did_ read it. That’s not repetition. That’s _opportunity meeting attention_. That’s reach.
The Practical Rule: Zedd’s Law Applied
To see what’s not there — _spam_ — gaze upon that which is: _intent, context, relevance, frequency, and respect_.
To understand the meaning of “spamming,” find out what it _doesn’t_ mean. It doesn’t mean “posting twice.” It doesn’t mean “marketing.” It doesn’t mean “I saw this before.”
Practical meaning: is how a word behaves in the wild.
Practical understanding: is knowing how, where, when, and on whom to use it — because you’ve lived the consequences of getting it wrong.
Words have legal definitions. But they also have _street definitions_. In the street of real life, “spammer” is a reputation bullet. Don’t fire it unless you’re sure. And don’t accept it when it’s fired at you without cause.
Because sometimes to understand the meaning of your own credibility, you have to understand what it _doesn’t_ mean. It doesn’t mean you’re silent. It doesn’t mean you only post once. It means you post with purpose, with respect, and with practical understanding of the room you’re in.
That’s the difference between reach and ruin.
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