Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative -Sefti”.

Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative -Sefti”. We're very passionate about teenagers and we aim at helping them to discover their purpose in life.

All thanks to God Almighty for Provision and the opportunity He granted Our NGO, Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initia...
27/10/2023

All thanks to God Almighty for Provision and the opportunity He granted Our NGO, Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative (SEFTI) to put smiles on the faces of TEN Teenagers and their parents in this year's annual TRAIN A TEEN (TAT) program of the organisation.

We were able to pay the school fees of these teenagers and got them their two basic textbooks (MATHS & ENGLISH).

This exercise took place in Three different schools, mostly located in the rural areas of the FCT. The class range was from JSS 2 - SS2 .

SEFTI shall continue to support and give voice to teenagers in the Suburban and rural areas of our beloved nation.

To GOD alone be all the glory.

What are your greatest fears and challenges as a teenager? This was the question I asked some of my teenagers last week ...
18/03/2023

What are your greatest fears and challenges as a teenager?

This was the question I asked some of my teenagers last week Saturday in one of our sessions.

I got different mind blowing answers from them, but one of the answers that touched me most was this.
*Sir, MY GREATEST FEAR AS A TEENAGER IS THE FEAR OF NOT MAKING IT TO MY FUTURE,*

I am motivated to react to this question on this space today because, a lot of teenagers out there share same or similar fear. It was also one of my greatest fears as a teenager.

When you major on the minor things as a teenager, then the fear of not making it to your future is inevitable. What do you spend your time on? Do you devote more time to playing, phone, gisting, sleeping etc, than you do on reading RELEVANT books and PROGRAMS?

Do you keep friends with people that aren't going nowhere or not heading towards your direction in life? Once I understood this as a teenager, I became very selective about who I have as friends.

Solution.
(1)KEEP THE RIGHT PEOPLE AROUND YOU.
(2) SPEND MAJORITY OF YOUR TIME ON THINGS NECESSARY FOR YOUR DESIRE FUTURE (such as reading/studying, attending relevant seminars, creating small time for relaxation/play etc).
(3) HAVE A MENTOR AND BE WILLING TO BE MENTORED.

Recommendation:
These principles are irrefutable.
Dear teranager, try these 3 principles starting from today and you will see that there is nothing to be afraid of on your path to destiny.

©️Mela Daberechi
(Teens Mentor)

My dearly beloved TEENAGERS, I just want to encourage you this morning never to give up irrespective of what you are goi...
24/02/2023

My dearly beloved TEENAGERS, I just want to encourage you this morning never to give up irrespective of what you are going through and how broken you are right now.

I am sorry if you have being ABUSED and ACCUSED WRONGLY.

I am sorry if someone MISTREATED you.

But, I want you to know something, You don't know the miracle that can come from your broken pieces, if you give your broken pieces a chance.

God bless you.

©️Mela Daberechi (Teens Mentor)

Parents please, let your WORDS as often as possible be filled with kindness and love when correcting or instructing your...
21/02/2023

Parents please, let your WORDS as often as possible be filled with kindness and love when correcting or instructing your teenagers.

A lot of teenagers are depressed and broken today because of the manner at which their parents speak to them.

I was a guest instructor at a Teens gathering sometime ago, I taught them on; "HOW TO IDENTIFY AND PURSUE THEIR PURPOSE IN LIFE".

After the class, a young boy (14 years) approached me with a smile and asked me this question.

The Boy; "Uncle, am I also born for a purpose? Can I ever become anything in life"? I thought maybe he didn't understand my teaching well, so I responded,

Me: my dear, Sure, you can become anything you want. As I said while teaching, God never created anything and anyone with a purpose.

The Boy: (with tears) But Uncle, my mother calls me "Born by mistake" , a nonentity, she says "I cant amount to anything". I began to believe her at a point because I didn't seem good enough for anything.

The first thing I did was to disabuse and debunk all those negetive words from his mind, I told him how precious he is to us all.

I sold the idea of Self-Love and confidence to him and placed him on my personal follow up list.

What was this boy's crime? His mother conceived him out of wedlock, the father denied the pregnancy and after those trial times, she has settled down with another man.

She now puts all the agonies of her yesterday on this innocent boy. They aren't training him in school, other well-meaning individuals around him are footing his academic bills, in one of the Government owned secondary schools here in Abuja.

I only communicate him through a neighbour's phone line, because his mom would beat him up if anyone calls him through her phone.

This is not the only time I have encountered teenagers complaining bitterly about the harsh words and phrases their parents and guardians use on them.

Please parents, those negative words have the potentials of keeping these teenagers from their very best and God ordained destinies.

©️Mela Daberechi (Teens Mentor)

I want to thank God Almighty and the leadership of LFC Teens Apo Resettlement Abuja.It was really a refreshing time in H...
13/02/2023

I want to thank God Almighty and the leadership of LFC Teens Apo Resettlement Abuja.

It was really a refreshing time in His presence yesterday with those precious souls.

I had the opportunity to speak to the Pre-teenagers and Teenagers in the two services on the topic:

" THE PLACE OF SELF-LOVE IN SELF REALIZATION AND ACTUALIZATION".

The afterclass experiences have being amazing for me and my precious teenagers, till now. It will just amaze you to know what these young ones are bottling up.

Don't forget my dear friends (Teenagers), God never created a nonentity in you, and once you realise how VALUABLE you are to the world, you naturally fall in love with yourself and the journey to destiny becomes a smoother one.

I sincerely believe in your ability and capacity to becoming what God has destined you to become.

Your future is within you, Let's harness them together.

Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative (SEFTI) Cares.

©️ Mela Daberechi (Teens Mentor)

My dear Teens, there is nothing noble about being superior to any other person, the true nobility is in being superior ...
09/02/2023

My dear Teens, there is nothing noble about being superior to any other person, the true nobility is in being superior to your previous self.

08/02/2023

My dear teenagers, never give up on that dream in your heart that wouldn't go away over the years. keep pressing toward it's actualization.

Get mentored, get educated and above all keep praying to God for help.

Make a vow to be a better version of yourself every passing day of your life.

"If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.”

Mela Williams Dabby

©️ Mela Daberechi (Teens Mentor)

The Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative (SEFTI), celebrated this year's United Nations International day of Educ...
25/01/2023

The Suburban Enlightenment For Teens Initiative (SEFTI), celebrated this year's United Nations International day of Education at Government Senior Secondary school, Kabusa, Abuja-FCT. Nigeria.

I had the privilege of an hour lecture with these amazing future leaders on the topic: THE ROLE AND IMPORTANCE OF EDUCATION IN SELF DISCOVERY.

Our focus is on Teenagers from the suburban areas of Nigeria.

©️Mela Daberechi
(Teens Mentor )

Merry Christmas to our family and friends. & Mrs D. Mela.
25/12/2022

Merry Christmas to our family and friends.

& Mrs D. Mela.

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