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Hello people!Are you a busy parent who is planning to engage a home lesson tutor for your child?AmaGrace cradle will hel...
11/02/2025

Hello people!Are you a busy parent who is planning to engage a home lesson tutor for your child?AmaGrace cradle will help you solve this challenge.

AmaGrace kiddies is an online platform where kids are taught to read ,starting with the letter sounds,letter names and then blending of sounds.When a child knows the basics then reading and writing becomes the easiest thing to do.

In numeracy,children are made to count ,identify and write .The use of basic lines and strokes help children write so easily.

We also have our Quantitative and Verbal reasoning.Learning to draw basic shapes ,objects and the likes is what we do in our Art class.

Finally is the French Language as a bonus for the first 10 pupils who will enroll.

Kindly DM for more information about our classes.

19/04/2024

Hi fans !!!
Having been following up on the recent happenings via social media and the very many comments from readers and content makers,l have once again remembered the past.Someone commented about not checking up frequently on one of the ladies who got drowned.
This question has resonated again,how often do we really check up on our friends and how well do we try to identify with what goes on in their lives.
I am reposting this story,let's read ,learn and share.Thank you for the long read.
Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=231926633324694&id=100095220760917&mibextid=Nif5oz

14/02/2024

I lived with this pain and guilt for a very long time and l promised me that l wouldn't let it repeat itself ever again.
I share with you my love story and l have titled it "Beyond the How are you and l am fine ".
This occured over a decade ago,l lost my friend Christy Omowero Damisa in the year 2011.She originates from a town known as Ososo in Edo State.We met at the higher institution and we bonded so well.We both lived off campus and studied same course.Having come from a polygamous family,she had money always available from her siblings and l was her safe.I could so save her money for her and that endeared me to her.On graduation,we had promised each other that we will both be each others maid of honour depending on who gets married first.She moved to Lagos and l moved to F.C.T.We kept communicating until the last time she placed a call in 2010.She had promised visiting me in Asaba whenever she visits her younger sister and l was to be around then too.
Christy didn't come as promised and when l called to enquire,she said she couldn't make it and l didn't probe to know the reason.The communication reduced but l didn't take it seriously,l would just send her SMS,silly jokes but she wouldn't respond.That didn't still mean anything to me as l kept on bombarding her with SMS and all in French Language,l never put a call through.I wasn't worried that my messages weren't getting any response,πŸ™†.
Behold time to tie the knot was approaching and l said to inform her to get ready to be my maid of honour.I put a call through and a lady picked ,"Christy,how are you?the voice answered,"this is not Christy"kindly give her the phone."Christy is not here "she said .Give her the phone now,she is not here.Okay,let her know her friend Enkay called.She is dead was the response,πŸ–€πŸ‘οΈπŸ™† and yours truly dropped her phone and stood still in the staff room where l made the call.She had kept that line on for my sake knowing that l was going to call someday.My friend had long gone to rest and l had no idea.Then came the difficult question,whose fault was it that l didn't know...mine was it .Yea,it was as a result of carelessness,l didn't care enough,l kept on bombarding her with messages and caring less if she responded or not.Was my cry ever going to repair the loss and the carelessness?No!No!No!
I learned to care more after this experience.Do we go further to really find out if our friends and neighbors around are actually doing fine ?do we search the eyes to see if there are tears hidden there?do we sometimes place a call to say just hello or do we call when we need something?
These are life's questions.
So,as we celebrate world's Valentine's Day,ponder over these and try to care more.
Christy's memory remains fresh in my mind.l lost a rare gem.Adieu dear friend.I pray for God's grace to run this race and make it there someday .
Enaky Caresβ™₯️

14/02/2024

Today is world's valentine day and l got thinking.l remembered a few loved ones that have passed on and the bond that existed between us.
Christy Omowero Damisa was one of them.
I had written a piece about this last year titled Beyond the ,"how are you".
I thought to repeat this in loving memory of my dear friend and course mate who passed in the year 2011.
Watch out for yet another piece as we ponder about the true meaning or essence of love.

03/01/2024

It's a new Year
A new day
A new hope
Fresh ideas
God's grace and glory unfolding daily
Are you super ready and excited about the good things that will be unfolding!!!!
Happy New Year πŸŒŸπŸŒˆπŸ‰
Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️

30/12/2023

December is at it's peak today.Yea,the new year is less than 30 hours from now. I was amazed at the write up l had done only this month on the memorials of my father Uzochukwukwa Onyeachie.l then realized that truly,only action takers generate greatness.

Part of my father's principles,one cannot stay in a place or keep doing same thing and expect a better result.l love to write and l do write but l have never been this committed to it.

Be Willing to do, Be Committed to it,Dedicate your time to it and be Resolute to do the things you love to do rather than procrastinating.

Two of my father's anchor scriptures,
Ecclesiastes 9:10 says :
Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might; for there is no activity or planning or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol (the nether world, the place of the dead) where you are going.

John 9:4 says,
We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work.

Now is the time and not later for we do not know what tomorrow holds.It's easy to say tomorrow but we do not have a say over our tomorrow.

Nnam Uzor would have said a few words to us before he kicked the bucket if he had known that there wouldn't be another tomorrow for him.

So as we praise God for bringing us this far and begin to congratulate us for making it to the new year,we should also reflect on the fact that tomorrow may be too late for us.

A song writer , Marilyn Baker sang,
There's a voice calling in the wilderness
Prepare a way for the Lord
There's a voice calling out to you and me
Are you ready to meet your God.

Vanity !Vanity!Vanity!
Rest on my dear father .

Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️.

28/12/2023

Life!how does life start!!!

God gives and takes as we know and people often say.Yes, that's a fact.God brings to life through a vessel,the woman(a mother) and the man.

Parents are caretakers but God is the one who watches and He is incharge of our affairs Children are not our property but they are given to us, as vessels to take care of.

There was this bond that existed between my father and l,people often called me daddy's girl.They felt l was his favourite but na na,we were all his favourite.Perhaps there was a different kind of bond because he was the one that took care of me in my infancy because mum had to go back to school and so l was left to be taken care of by my dad and a nanny.He did all my mum was supposed to do and while he was at work ,the nanny took charge till his People often say that a mother couldn't have done it better.πŸ˜ƒ.

I saw history repeat itself in my life again.I had to hire a nanny also to take care of our lovely little diva at 6 weeks old because mummy had to go back to work.I then understood what my parents must have been through as our caretakers.

Life!how does life start?life starts when one gets to know God for himself.
Life without Christ is vanity.
Vanity upon vanity says the preacher,all is vanity.
One of my father's quote

Rest on Ezi Nnam!
Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️.

26/12/2023

"Happy Chrismex" anti chorused some children in my neighborhood and l responded by saying "same to you'.
As l responded,l laughed aloud and l immediately remembered Christmas celebrations for me as a child.
It was always the most wonderful and happiest time of the year for us.They called my father ,ogbu ewu atulu, meaning (a killer of goat and ram).
Yea,it was also the busiest time of the year for us.The men concentrates on the killings of goat and chicken while the ladies in the cooking of the fried rice,salad and yours truly had to make chin chin that the whole community will eat πŸ˜ƒ. Christmas Olindo was my mum's song.We often sang and danced to the rhythm not knowing the meaning.
We often sat at the balcony eating chin chin and meat as we watched people move up and down, especially children.My father would say that those children were beggers and that his children must not indulge in such acts.If they come visiting,they wouldn't accept food or chin chin and they will not leave until you shake body,money must dropπŸ˜ƒ.If someone comes visiting,we all go inside.They will tell us that the person is their visitor and not ours.From them l learnt the word "seniors gist"Eventually the person gives us money,then we must surrender the money to themπŸ˜ƒ.
Yes,that was it, but we thought they were hard on us but now we understand.They taught us attitude of gratitude.If someone gives you something then you must tell my parents and they in turn must call to appreciate the person.They thought us not to have a sense of entitlement.See whatever you receive as a privilege.
The new attire weren't worn until on Sunday since we don't go out on Christmas days.
Those were some good practices that became part of us even till now.

Ezi Nnam,your legacies live on .
God's grace is ever sufficient for us all.
We will not rest on our oars as we serve God .
Rest on father !!!
Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️.

25/12/2023

Debeokwunaofu,so long a name but deep is the meaning.

I had enquired from my father the meaning of this name but l only got to understand it's true meaning a few days ago from my mother.My father explained details of the information he wanted us to know but kept some to himself so we don't misuse or abuse the knowledge.

Debeokwunaofu means"upright, truthful,honest,straightforward,if you have said so,then let it be so,do not go back on your words,see other synonyms.Deep indeed !She narrated the mystery behind the name and she said it was a promise they made to each other that translated into names.

I heaved a sigh but she continued and also mentioned Eziokwuchukwu.
Yours truly here bears that name.Only God's truth prevails,I thought about the meaning of my name so deeply and then so much understanding came.So,their marriage was based on the true word of God,integrity of heart,uprightness and the likes.No wonder they loved to address us by our native names and none other.Our names are constant reminders of the promise they made to each other.

Another is Chukwuenweniwe Ka madu,God does not get angry like men do.So,your anger shouldn't go beyond sunset.

The names we give to our children speak volume you know. Though the Genz generation has modernized everything but let's think before giving our children names .

Still on the memorials of my dear father Uzochukwukwa Onyeachie.

He rests on ,that l know for sure.

Enkay Cares β™₯️✍️

23/12/2023

Atuma-Iga is the name of a village in Delta State where my fathers originated from.It's about 40 minutes drive from Asaba the state capital. My father visited the village almost every 3 weeks and later the visits reduced to every month end shortly before his demise.

During festive periods he took us with him.We often took a tour round our village in the evenings and came back so exhausted.As we strolled, he mentions people's names, showed us their houses.He tells us the relationship between us and those.He tells us where we can marry from or where not and he explains the reasons why.We grew up knowing all our close and distant cousins,nephews and nieces.

He picks up plants from the ground,tells us the native name as well as their botanical names.Edible and non edibles .

Folk tales were not left out .He made us laugh most times.

I recall how Christmas celebrations used to be for us.Will it ever be same was the question l asked myself on passing the road to my village early hours of the morning.
I heard a whisper,"be comforted",things are different now .
I am happy that he died knowing God.
Nnam,Mr Onyeachie,thank you for those silent teachings,they didn't go to waste after all.
Enkay Cares πŸ’•βœοΈ

21/12/2023

It's been a long day people,trust we are doing awesome.

The seaters are empty and no fun around here.

Lots of development since the last time we came home and we found it difficult to get home.So sad !

I checked the bedroom and it's empty with just the bed well laid.

Man has gone to his long home l reminded me.😭
I miss my father's presence so much today.

Enkay Cares continues 😍✍️..

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