In loving memory of Donovan Theys

In loving memory of Donovan Theys In loving memory of my husband, our brother, father and grandfather. May your soul rest in eternal peace

So, the other day, Natalie, the boys, and I went to Donovan’s Memorial bench. I was there a few days before and saw that...
03/07/2025

So, the other day, Natalie, the boys, and I went to Donovan’s Memorial bench. I was there a few days before and saw that the plants in the pots were being tampered with, and also that the people sitting there used it as their refuse. (The refuse bin is just behind the bench but ya).
Natalie had a few young Mother-in-Law’s Tongue, commonly known as the Snake Plant, and we decided to try them. Hopefully, no one will try to steal them because they grow everywhere here. I also bought a few white gravels to make it pretty, and while we were busy doing that, a lady with her dog stopped in her tracks, shouting:
“What are you doing?”
For some reason, she addressed Natalie. (Who knows why, but we can think what we want). :D :D
Natalie wasn’t impressed and told her very firmly, almost abruptly: “We are cleaning up and planting new ones because people always mess up here ….”
“Yes, but you don’t give the plants water, and I walk here every day with my two bottles of water, and I’m the one watering the plants …”
Mind you, they were quite dry because I was out of town, and no matter how many times I’ve invited loved ones who pass there to just give them a few drops, it seems like no one has done so yet. (No problem with that, it was my idea, so I’m primarily responsible for it.)
So the chattering continued back and forth, and I could see that Natalie was really irritated by the woman. So I started to thank her generously for watering my D’s plants, and she slowly started to relax, telling me that the municipality’s guy who waters the grass and plants close by always looked at her like she’s from Mars when she waters the plants. (I wasn’t sure if she wanted me to be mad at the guy). :D :D
Then she and her dog continued their daily walk, and Natalie and I started to laugh. My thoughts were:
“Jeez, I’m grateful for passers-by (angels) who care, but I never expected them to be so ‘kwaai’!”

This morning my brother and I went to plant some vygies in my D's pots next to his Memorial Bench ...This time I really ...
04/05/2025

This morning my brother and I went to plant some vygies in my D's pots next to his Memorial Bench ...
This time I really call on all Angels to protect the plants ... this is the 4th try ... people are malicious and don't have respect.

Looks like Winter is here already ...Made a turn at D's bench today ... just to find all plants in the two pots are bein...
01/04/2025

Looks like Winter is here already ...
Made a turn at D's bench today ... just to find all plants in the two pots are being stolen ... or vandalized. I truly don't know what to think but hey, it will take a lot more to put me off!
Tomorrow I'll do it all over again!

05/03/2025

I'm in such a predicament. During my morning walk, I found the potted plants on both sides of D's memorial bench being removed. This is either theft or just plain vandalism. Some people sitting there even use the pots for their litter while the refuse bins are just behind the bench.
I'm so disgusted and sad. It was not my intention. I wanted to enjoy the flowers when I'm visiting, and now it's the third time I have to replace plants/flowers.
I'm now thinking of planting succulents with long thorns and see if anyone will remove them.
These people are heartless, disrespectful, and just plain rude.

03/03/2025

No matter how often the winds of grief try to blow out the candle of our love, I will rekindle it.

Donovan will live as long as I live and even longer. He may no longer be alive, but our love will never die

Today I replaced the fragile 'Gesiggies' with this red, kanniedood Malva at D's memorial bench.I hope it'll 'weather' th...
06/01/2025

Today I replaced the fragile 'Gesiggies' with this red, kanniedood Malva at D's memorial bench.
I hope it'll 'weather' this weather of ours.

We unveiled D's Memorial Bench on the 1st of December - 17 months and 1 day after he left this earthly plane. We also sc...
16/12/2024

We unveiled D's Memorial Bench on the 1st of December - 17 months and 1 day after he left this earthly plane. We also scattered some of his stardust here in Swakopmund where he lived most of his life ...
May your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace, my darling husband

It was such a beautiful, memorable day ...We unveiled D's memorial bench on December 1st and scattered some of his stard...
16/12/2024

It was such a beautiful, memorable day ...
We unveiled D's memorial bench on December 1st and scattered some of his stardust here in the town where he lived most of his life. It has been exactly 17 months and one day since he left us.

Prepping for Sunday's Memorial Bench Unveiling Thank you Raoul and Natz
27/11/2024

Prepping for Sunday's Memorial Bench Unveiling
Thank you Raoul and Natz

There were moments in that lifetimeThat my heart still replaysThere were minutes, there were hours, there were daysThere...
29/10/2024

There were moments in that lifetime
That my heart still replays
There were minutes, there were hours, there were days
There are moments I still love you that same way ...

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