09/10/2023
DO NOT FORCE WHAT YOU ARE NOT GIVEN!
Most marriages/relationships crumble today because some men/women are into marriages/relationships with someone they're not given but forced.
You'll see them trying everything they can to make the relationship/marriage work but to no avail.
They'll try to make their partner happy and appreciative, but instead, things are becoming worst and they end up being hurt.
They'll even deny themselves some joy, and try to please their partners but things still won't just work out the way they want it.
When your relationship/marriage doesn't work out the way you want it, don't force it! Calm yourself down and try to find out if you're with the right person. Try to find out if your partner is given to you from above.
The Bible says, ✝ James 1:17
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning."
From the above passage of the Holy Bible, when you're with the GIFT (man/woman) given to you from above, you don't need extra effort to love, be submissive,to succeed and be happy.
When your partner is given to you, you don't need to go extra mile or work harder before things turn out to work in your favor.
Remember, fishes don't struggle to swim in the river, they do it without stress. It's a natural thing for them in a natural environment! You can also flow with your God given partner without stress or struggles. It's natural too!
There's actually nothing you can do to please who is not pleased with you or to keep who does not want to be kept by you!
Learn to be with who is ready to be with you and save yourself some stress of pleasing everyone, all in the name of proving a point or feel wanted.
All you need to do, is...
🔹Be yourself!
🔹Be kind to yourself and everyone that comes around you!
🔹Love, Worship and Serve God wholeheartedly, and he'll grant you your heart desires, and give you your man/woman in due season.
Remember